If you've read any of my previous posts, you'd be aware that I'm willing to try therapy to help him.
I'm actually younger than he is, and I'm not suffocating him. He's grown up. Infact, it's quite the opposite. He repeatedly asks for help and he relies on me. It's a relationship. That's how relationships work. He lives more than a thousand miles away. It's quite impossible for me to suffocate him from here.
Actually, it is very much because of what he now knows about me. He's told me time and time again.
Also, he knew this for over a year now. He was with me the first few months he knew about it, and he was alright and moving on just fine. Since he moved back home, he's gradually gotten worse. Being with me helped him tremendously.
If you have nothing nice to say, don't say anything at all. I posted this for positive feedback, not a guilt trip. You're unaware of every factor in my relationship and have no room making such assumptions.