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I loaned my boyfriend $200.00 he was suppose to pay me on the 3rd with is SSI check. He has paid everyone back what he owes them but he has not paid me. He hasn't even called. He is a crack head I recently found out. Why pay everyone but me?

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who is everyone

if they include people who could come after him legally or perhaps physically, he probably felt he better pay them

as his girlfriend he probably looks at the money as less of a loan, more of you supporting him in his time of need (regardless of how the money was presented)

i'd say lose this guy, and if you get your money bonus, if not, considered it a cheap getaway

a guy like this is likely gonna cost you more than $200 at some point

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@LeonaBanks,

he's a crack head. nuf said.

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I wonder how many threads you are going to start on essentially the same subject?

Cycloptichorn

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@LeonaBanks,

Hire some very large bonehead for $50 to beat the money out of him - that way you get the satisfaction of his a$$ being kicked and $150 back.

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@dyslexia,

dyslexia wrote:

he's a crack head. nuf said.

May I paraphrase for emphasis and clarity? He's a ******* crackhead.

Don't take it personally. He's not out playing golf, or cheating on you (unless he's sucking dick for crack). He's simply ruled by a very powerful chemical addiction.

Which is not to say crackheads aren't responsible with money, no. Attribute that to his personality. Spendthrifts come in all shapes and sizes! Male, female, short, tall, crackhead.

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@LeonaBanks,

The more you post about your crackhead boyfriend, the more I think it's a match made in hell.

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Don't be harsh. She's just doing a "sanity check."

From the various questions she has posted, she has been in a bad relationship and is trying to sort it out.

The biggest thing an addict does is to manipulate and use the persons closest to him/her. Sounds like she is in the middle of a bad time.

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@DrewDad,

You're a fool. If you have nothing helpful to say, don't respond to the question moron. (To Drewdad the jerk)

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@DrewDad,

I meant the comment below to apply to you Drewdad

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DrewDad, I think you've got your answer Very Happy

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@sullyfish6,

sullyfish6 wrote:

Don't be harsh. She's just doing a "sanity check."

Sometimes, people need harsh.

sullyfish6 wrote:

From the various questions she has posted, she has been in a bad relationship and is trying to sort it out.

The biggest thing an addict does is to manipulate and use the persons closest to him/her. Sounds like she is in the middle of a bad time.

Sounds like, yes. At least she's not 17 with a 14 year-old daughter.....

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@DrewDad,

And sometimes they don't fool. (To Sullyfish6 and whoever else has nothing worth hearing to say.)

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@LeonaBanks,

LeonaBanks wrote:

And sometimes they don't fool.

if by this, you're responding to this

sullyfish6 wrote:

The biggest thing an addict does is to manipulate and use the persons closest to him/her.

yes they do, every time, that's how they get away with being an addict around people

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@LeonaBanks,

Leona, I think you already know the answers to your problems. You need to get this guy out of your life like a dirty piece of toilet paper that's stuck on your shoe. Focus on making yourself a strong person who is worthy of respect and love - and if a man can't give you that you don't need him. Good luck.

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@LeonaBanks,

LeonaBanks wrote:

I loaned my boyfriend $200.00 he was suppose to pay me on the 3rd with is SSI check. He has paid everyone back what he owes them but he has not paid me. He hasn't even called. He is a crack head I recently found out. Why pay everyone but me?

Simple- If he's your boyfriend, he knows that you can be manipulated emotionally. If this guy is a crackhead on S.S.I., I doubt that he will EVER have enough money to pay you back. He has other things to buy (like crack) that is more important to him than being honest with you.

My suggestion is to forget about the $200-. Chalk it up to profit and loss, and consider it a good lesson learned . Second, dump that loser.

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@LeonaBanks,

Look, is there something holding you to this guy that you haven't told us about? Kids? Property? A pet poodle?

Only one of those is a real barrier to walking away from this crackhead and getting on with your life.

And if you do have kids, you need to get them, and yourself, untangled from this A-hole now.

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@Green Witch,

Green Witch wrote:

Leona, I think you already know the answers to your problems. You need to get this guy out of your life like a dirty piece of toilet paper that's stuck on your shoe. Focus on making yourself a strong person who is worthy of respect and love - and if a man can't give you that you don't need him. Good luck.

This is great advice and needs to be repeated. Smile

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@LeonaBanks,

Does he have anything worth $200 that you could pawn? That's what I'd do, oh yes I would. Pawn or sell on the street.

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@Mame,

Mame wrote:

Does he have anything worth $200 that you could pawn? That's what I'd do, oh yes I would. Pawn or sell on the street.

perhaps his computer, end that porn addiction

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