I truly believe he has feelings for this woman and just stringing me along.
You are feeling that he's stringing you along and he surely is. Don't wait for
him to humiliate you even further; take matters in your own hand and show
him that you mean business. Open your own bank account, talk to a lawyer
and have your husband serve divorce papers. Your husband might have
fallen out of love with you, but to show absolutely no respect towards you,
is inexcusable. Like every dignified person, you deserve better than this.