@nycfunction,
The more I read in your various threads on this subject.... the more I am convinced that your real interest is getting child support payments reduced. The child seems inconsequential and more of a means to save you money.
Originally, I had empathy for you. That is quickly changing to a level of disgust. Mind you, I may be reading this wrong.
If you are as good a father as you claim...the boy would come first.