@ossobuco,
One more post and I'll be quiet.
I remember back in my laboratory days resenting this, ah, bitch who came into the room acting like she owned the place, personality plus. Excuse me, I'm working. I seethed in my quiet way about her for a while. Who did she think she was? One sunny day, I figured out she was acting like me. Then I could enjoy her visits.
So.. recognition is half the battle.