So my wife and I are pretty open about our past. Our thought is 'it happened before we were together and it doesn't matter' She went through a serious slut phase in collage and when I ask, she tells me truthfully. Recently, I asked about the best sex she had and she told me it wasn't me. She had a guy just 'fucked' her great and guy who she truly made love to. Neither was me. Now I have been told by women in the past I was the best and the old 'your penis fits me perfect'....c'mon ladies...do you just say those things to not hurt our feelings? I'll admit I lied to my wife and told her she was the best. She's not but I didn't want to hurt her.( The best ******* in my life was a crazy stripper who I would have never been in a serious relationship with.) So you girls usually lie about the whole best sex thing to your current man. Be honest now....
She went through a serious slut phase in collage...
Your wife is an artist?
I'd be interested in seeing some of her works from this phase of her life.
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jespah
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Tue 7 Jul, 2009 03:57 am
@KiwiChic,
Do you lie to anybody else's husband?
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Gargamel
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Tue 7 Jul, 2009 08:27 am
I have a slut collage. I just cut out a bunch of centerfolds and glued them to a 3x5-foot piece of posterboard. It hangs tastefully in the drawing room.
Seems like a loaded question really. If I say honestly, then it can hurt my partner's self esteem. If I truly love a guy enough to make him my husband, why would I want to hurt him even for the sake of remaining honest?
I guess to answer your question...No. I woudn't be honest with him because there would be no benefit. If I tell him 'truthfully' what I'd like him to do to make things 'better' then the focus is not on what happened with my partners in the past but rather looking forward to the future. Win win for us both.
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panzade
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Tue 7 Jul, 2009 12:09 pm
@Sglass,
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do only the geeky guys have low self esteem?
No. The geeky guys with high self-esteem are intolerable
My take on this is Just be gald she was truthful when she said you aare not the best shes had. on the other hand when she says you fit her cough cough (ok im 16 so im not gunna say it). ok well i guess take that as a complement even if it may not be true. think of it like this, have you ever told someone you have never had sex b4 know u have??? if so i guess you could think of it like that. Some times the truth hurts buddy
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