Quote:A burst appendix can ruin your day
It certainly can - it can also take your life if sepsis sets in and takes over- so I'm glad you made it okay.
I know what you mean about being treated as a 'patient' instead of a human with dignity. I've only been in the hospital with relation to my pregnancy and especially during the delivery I felt like a piece of meat to which procedures were being done .
I had one woman (a nurse) pushing on my belly from the outside - laying her body on top of mine and HURTING me even more than what was happening inside. Finally I just said - GET OFF OF ME- you're HURTING ME.
She didn't stop.
When my son was finally delivered and they started in on getting the placenta out I said, 'PLEASE- just give me two minutes. Please- just don't touch me for two minutes...PLEASE?!
They didn't stop.
(In all fairness they couldn't - they had to get the baby and placenta delivered).
The nurse afterward was awesome though. She was so soothing - she rubbed my back with lotion and I'd think - how does she have time to do this - does she do this for every patient?
Anyway - I know what you mean. I hated that vulnerable, out of control, and invisible, almost as if you as a person has disappeared feeling.
I'm glad you're safely healing.