How does a guy get over the girl of his dreams from highschool so long ago?

I still remember a couple. What's 45 years among friends?

The only sensible answer is to have sex with a man

Always the practical answer, but. . . .

Well, maybe not the solution he's looking for.

Your thread title is:

How does a guy get over the girl of his dreams from highschool so long ago?

You then expound on your query by saying:

There was this really great girl in high school that i really liked throughout my time at school but i never had the guts to tell how i felt. We weren't exactly friends nor strangers but we had our moments (lol). Graduation was a couple of months ago and so I thought I would get over her by now (thought I did).



Just wondering which it is. Was the girl of your dreams from highschool so long ago or from when you graduated a couple months ago? The only other possibility I can see is that you just graduated from college a couple of months ago, but you leave ambiguity by not saying so.

Hey, that could be your problem with this girl also! You've never made it clear that you were interested in her and left a lot of ambiguity by not saying so. If she's so much on your thoughts these days, why not just bite the bullet and tell her you're interested. Just be sure you don't blurt out that you want to "have r n sack."

Ya NEVER get over the High School crush. I'm 72...and mine occasionally comes back in dreams!

Get yer balls together and talk to her. She's just another human being.

DO IT! DO IT!

If you don't you will kick yourself in the ass for years for screwing up!

DO IT!

I did it the easy way. I went out with her again! I asked her out after our 10th High School reunion. I found out she was not the girl I envisioned from way back. We just had our 30th and she was there. Now she's fat too.

when I went to my 50th I just sorta looked around the room and wondered who all those old people were.

I know the feeling all too well. I few years back I fell for a guy I worked with and I'm still crazy about him.
I do everything in my power to avoid going to town when I think he's working and there's no chance of seeing him(because it hurts when I see him), yet the more I try to avoid him, the more I see him.
I use to go for drives through town and even hung out in the parking lot of an ice cream place next to his street, in hopes he's walk by and maybe ask me out already.
We got together one night after seeing eachother at a local pub, but he was just coming out of a 2 year relationship and wasn't ready for anything serious.
Bummer for me.
Every time I see him now, it looks like he wants to come and talk to me, but I'm always with someone when I do see him, so who knows, maybe he'll be ready some day.

Anyway, my advice to you is the same as Frank's advice. Find the courage to ask her out before someone else comes along and snags her.
You know where to jog

Good luck to you.

I'm with Frank. You never get over a high school crush. I still think about this girl I knew way back when and wonder what she's doing now and where she's at. If I had the chance I'd definately get in touch with her. Of course, my wife might not like that, but thankfully she's an understanding woman and not the jealous kind.

Aren't we all?

Yeah... I'd have to agree with u... I graduated 7 years ago and never saw her again until a couple of days ago I found her on Facebook and my heart started pounding like crazy. I'm married now and I love my wife but she will always be special to me. Maybe it's because we liked each other but never really officially went out.

She recently got married and I felt really disappointed. It's almost as if deep inside I was always hoping someday it would finally happen.