@georgeob1,
georgeob1 wrote:
Well when I was a kid in Detroit we all knew the German and Russian/Polish Jews didn't get on very well, though we didn't know why. The former had generally been here longer, were more prosperous, and often didn't speak Yiddish. I did attend Hebrew Day school at the (largely German) local JCC under the pseudonym of Alan Weiss (30 minutes memorizing text in an incomprehensible language wasn't all that different from an altar boy's Latin drills). After class we could play basketball. Previously me and my Jewish pals played ball at the CYO (Catholic Youth Organization) gym, but it was closed for repairs. I was about 12 then, but it all ended when my mother found the mezuzah I put on before I went in..
When my grandparents arrived from Czarist Russia in the late 19th century, some of the German Jews referred to the Jews arriving from Eastern Europe as "wild eyed Asiatics." As I read, the German Jews had been accepted into Christian society fairly well, until the Russian Jews started coming. Then collectively Christians started asking themselves whether the German Jews were actually just these very strange Jews from Russia after all (Russian Jews spoke Yiddish, beat their chests while praying, subscribed to strange dietary laws, wore hats or yarmulkas often, and were crude by German Jewish standards - a putz/schmuck is Yiddish for the male genitalia). All in all, not a good marriage, so to speak. Things changed somewhat in later generations; however, after WWII, there were German Jews that managed to come to the U.S., and were still claiming they were German. Many Jews of Russian descent considered them in emotional denial, considering no amount of High German saved them from the camps, etc.
I also think that Jews that came from Russia had embraced a fair amount of Russian preferences in food, dance, music, and the German Jews might have often been quite proud of their German (authoritarian?) persona. They learned to stay apart, either due to economics, or the friendships might have been somewhat superficial between the two groups for a long time. Today, I have no idea how third and fourth/fifth generations feel towards each other. I'm out of the loop.
I have heard of Italian-American kids going to a Jewish community center to play basketball. It was not necessary to put in time in religious study. But, basketball might one day be recognized as the great peacemaker. Sort of like when women of different ethnicities exchanged recipes, and overcame initial alienation.