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To fresh up our sex life

 
 
katego
 
Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 01:19 pm
Me and my boyfriend used to have enormous sex pleasures with each other and I have never had better sex, but now we are a little rusty. We freshed it up a little with practice and using more toys. Then we added another girl, so we were 2 girls on my boyfriend sometimes, and we had great sex. But me and Johanna (the other girl) wanted to expand it, and we asked my boyfriend if we could go all on all, that we could do whatever we wanted to with each other during the sex, and we wanted to use a strap on on him, have anal sex with each other, also with him. He said that he thought this was a little bit unatural and weird, but he is thinking about it, because he agrees that it sounds good to get a dildo up in his anal. But he asked the questions: Is it natural? Is this okey? Is it weird?

Thank you
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katego
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 02:56 pm
@katego,
Someone??
Mame
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 03:01 pm
@katego,
Well, sorry, but your entire sex life is weird to me, so what do I know?
joefromchicago
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 04:30 pm
@katego,
katego wrote:

Me and my boyfriend used to have enormous sex pleasures with each other and I have never had better sex, but now we are a little rusty. We freshed it up a little with practice and using more toys. Then we added another girl, so we were 2 girls on my boyfriend sometimes, and we had great sex. But me and Johanna (the other girl) wanted to expand it, and we asked my boyfriend if we could go all on all, that we could do whatever we wanted to with each other during the sex, and we wanted to use a strap on on him, have anal sex with each other, also with him. He said that he thought this was a little bit unatural and weird, but he is thinking about it, because he agrees that it sounds good to get a dildo up in his anal. But he asked the questions: Is it natural? Is this okey? Is it weird?

Thank you

How you doin'?
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Bi-Polar Bear
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 04:36 pm
It warms my heart to see you kids having such a good time and being willing to experiment to give each other pleasure. God bless you.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 04:53 pm
Quote:
Pegging- Pegging is when a woman uses a strap-on dildo to penetrate her partner anally, usually a man. While this practice is not commonly mentioned due to the various taboos many cultures have against receptive male anal sex, and statistics are hard to come by, many people believe it is the most common use of strap-ons, and often manufacturers use images of a woman with a strapon and a male on the advertising or packaging for strap-on dildos and harnesses.
Pegging can be done for a variety of reasons, but probably the most common is that it allows a heterosexual male to receive anal pleasure. Both partners may enjoy pegging, and many men have an anal orgasm from it. Many people, such as advice columnist Dan Savage, believe all men should try pegging at least once, as it may introduce them to a new enjoyable sexual activity and illuminate them to the receiver's perspective in sex. This perspective can also be gained by the female cross-dressing the man in lingerie - usually particularly feminine lingerie such as stockings, garters and high heeled shoes. This completion of the role reversal can be deeply erotic.
When pegging, even more than for other forms of anal sex, proper selection and quantity of lube is extremely important. Many dildos do not "hold" lube as well as a penis would, and a thicker or better adhering lube will likely perform much better.
A number of how-to videos about pegging have been made, for couples interested in trying it but not sure where to start, however most people feel a few minutes of experimenting to be plenty to learn the basics of pegging.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Strap-on_dildo
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 06:11 pm
natural..

natural is wanting sex

Weird.. well . I find it weird when people DONT talk about what they want and are not willing to discuss what they could do for fun

Who cares if what you want to do is considered natural, normal or acceptable to anyone else.... its your bed... its your life. .. its your choice.
Screw anyone else who thinks otherwise. Its not their business anyway Smile
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Green Witch
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 06:15 pm
@katego,
Whenever I see posts like this I can't decide if it's been written by a couple of smirking 17 year old boys who just want to get off on the answers or some middle age bloke playing out a fantasy and who also wants to get off on the answers. Am I too cynical? Do I have a pathetic view of men? Never mind.
Rockhead
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 06:20 pm
@Green Witch,
agree
no
yes
ok

Wink
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Montana
 
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Reply Sun 28 Dec, 2008 11:48 pm
I agree with Shewolf. Whatever floats your boat. What may not be natural for some may be for others and as long as you're not hurting anyone, your sex life is yours to do whatever you want with it.

This would be far from natural for me, as I don't even like porn, but that's who I am.

Have fun Smile
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Fairy Beary
 
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Reply Thu 2 Apr, 2009 08:10 pm
i think it is rather naturle...not so sure bout the cross dressing but what makes you happy is good!
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MissApril
 
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Reply Tue 10 Aug, 2010 05:16 pm
@Mame,
i dont think its weird or un natural..Some people are into that and some arent. There isnt anything wrong with having an exciting sex life some people would be alot happier if they were a little more open! just ease into it im sure if and whn he tries it he will love it!
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