@OGIONIK,
When I was in high school many eons ago, I liked going for a challenge which included the guys I had to chase. A guy who was moody was a turn on to me because I thought I could change him, but it ended up being that he changed me to be like him. When he was sad, I was sad. When he was happy, I was happy. I am now saying that after 24 years of marriage, I am much happier and receptive to my husband when he is kind and joking, rather than being in his own world and sort of excluding me. Guys, I think that's why women end up straying, because there are guys out there who will give them positive attention which is s-o-o much more appealing than having to work so hard for nothing at home - or even for those women just dating the guy. I have never strayed, but have been awfully tempted in the past.