@cicerone imposter,
What about the 50% of heterosexuals who don't divorce? Are they happily married? Does the unhappinest affect their children (if any). A poll by Woman's Day/AOL several month ago revealed:
Woman's Day/AOL Poll Reveals Majority of Married Women Would Reconsider Their Spouses: 36% Would Not Marry Their Husbands If They Could Re-Do Their 'I Do' & Another 20% Not Sure
NEW YORK and DULLES, Va., Jan. 2 /PRNewswire/ -- A new poll(*) from
Woman's Day magazine (womansday.com) and AOL.com finds over a third (36%) of married women would not marry their husbands if they had to do it all over again, with another 20% saying they weren't sure if they would or not.
The poll, which surveyed over 3,000 American married women, provides
insight into a variety of issues, including flirting, infidelity, soul
mates, bedtime habits, honesty, jealousy and pop culture.
In regard to marriage, the poll finds 76% of married women keep secrets
from their husbands. 84% of all American wives say they would want to be
told if their husbands were cheating, with 49% of them stating they have
suspected or even caught their husband having an affair. On the flipside,
76% admit to fantasizing about a man other than their husband, with 39%
stating they flirt with other men constantly. A look inside the bedroom of
married couples reveals that 33% of all wives sleep in the nude, while 32%
stated they sleep on the opposite end of the bed from their husband.
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So I wonder how many of the 50% remaining married are actually happily married? 30%? 20%? If course, a lot of unhappy marriages stay together until the kids are gone. If you read enough about this societal dysfunction (and I don't take the time to read a lot -- it just periodically pops up in the news), it doesn't make marriage look any more sacred than going to a strip bar. This gay marriage controversy I believe is partly kept alive because it took the spolight off of the bleak-looking straight marriage problem.