@eoe,
Quote:
Accept your guilt.
Embrace it.
But don't let it stop you from doing what you want to do.
Cheleanne:
Based upon what u said,
I see no reason for u to feel guilty; none.
However, insofar as ridding yourself of the guilt that u indicated
is concerned, I have 2 psychological techniques to suggest,
one of which I have successfully tried.
1 ) Instead of mentally pushing away the emotional pain
of guilt (as is the natural thing to do)
EMBRACE ITand with your mind,
try to make it hurt as
bad as u
possibly can.
Think of it like a bear hug. Let do its worst; make it do its worst.
Pain is not structured to be treated that way; it will vanish.
I have done that a couple of times about emotionally painful
memories and ideation; it worked great !
2 ) I saw this on TV:
A psychologist was treating 2 people with painful thoughts
so severe that thay were both considering suicide.
(A woman had been raped, and a guy had bad memories of combat.)
The psychologist did the following
to each of them:
thay each thought of what was bothering them,
while the doctor moved his fist (or another object)
from their hi left field of vu,
diagonally down to their low right (from the patient's point of vu).
As thay continued to think of the painful ideas,
he kept moving his fist diagonally, as aforesaid.
Thay both reported, individually,
that thay had relief from each of their respective emotional miseries.
Try either of those; or both.
Thay don 't cost much.
David