@Diest TKO,
Diest TKO wrote:The point you're missing RG is that you're not offering any criticism. You're only insulting me.
No, I'm offering many specific criticisms you find insulting. And because you feel insulted by them I won't bother to repeat them. I think if you thought about it you'd identify a couple specific ones.
Quote:You claimed you wanted to "agree to disagree, and then move on."
I said that about something else entirely and that doesn't mean that I'll not have a go at a new disagreement that comes up, but at this point I don't see a reason to keep talking in circles about this either.
Quote:I offered you that point to exit with grace but your oneupmanship ego is getting the better of you. The leader of a community sets the bar.
I just don't see this as about grace, saving face and oneopmanship. That's taking internet disagreements a bit too seriously for me.
Quote:You advice when it came time to deal with harassing trolls was to look away and ignore, essentially turn the other cheek. I find it funny that you can ask me to walk away from someone insulting my existence, but have no ability to "move on" yourself from someone like myself which has offered you several ways out without even having to turn your cheek.
I wasn't recommending that you try to get others to ignore you when you are offended, but rather that you ignore them when you are offended. If I were that offended by you I would certainly take my own advice.
Quote:You can't seem to accept criticism, and are trying to make this a referendum on me, a user.
I can be impatient, dismissive and rude, but I can also take criticism. As I've said, my qualm is not with the criticism part but the
ad nauseum part. I'm sure I could be even more patient, and even more diplomatic and those are legitimate criticisms about me that you made. I said it was annoying and the intention wasn't to make it a referendum on you so much as just express my opinion about that particular annoyance.
My qualm is about anything
ad nauseum being annoying, and that is indeed advice I should take for myself as this argument about the argument has gone on
ad nauseum and I've done my fair share of making it do so.
I don't care about having the last word, but I do tend to be opinionated and can get caught up in the same thing I am criticizing of not letting go when it's long past being edifying to anyone.