@Diest TKO,
Diest TKO wrote:
I made things up about what I benefit from?
My impression about what I get a benefit from is not mine to share ("preach" as you labeled it)?
What evidence do I have that it is what I benefit from?
No, you (and more so Hawkeye) made up things about how new users interact, and I wanted to set that record straight. You espouse a lot of concern about new users, but they typically don't have the concerns you claim they do.
Quote:My statement is about me, not a new user here, and it is independent of any site. I speak for myself here, and nobody else.
That's fine, but when you start claiming that the new users are put off by the software then you start to speak for others.
Quote:I can agree to disagree, but stop being so defensive.
I'm not being defensive Diest, I can live with you thinking what you want but I do want to correct misinformation for others who may read it and reserve the right to express my annoyance with it.
Ironically, it appears that criticizing your criticism is something that annoys you.
Quote:I'm saying it was not a improvement, and I'd prefer you to address my words, and not what you extrapolate. Put fewer words in my mouth and more marbles in yours if that's what it takes.
<shrugs> I don't intend to try to argue with you or convince you. That's an exercise in futility. I just intent to set the record straight when you overstate your opinions and to express my frustration when you are being annoying.
Quote:You think I learned how to use a forum here? Think this is my first forum? Only forum? Think I haven't been doing my best to use the new site?
I never claimed otherwise, I said that you don't understand interface design and usability even if you'd like to give advice on it.
This doesn't mean you don't know how to use forums, it just means that when you speak about intuitive interfaces you merely mean what you are familiar with and not what is truly intuitive.
Truly intuitive design should be so for people without familiarity with the interface as well, and there are often conflicting needs in that regard.
Typical forum software isn't very intuitive and usable, but it's familiar (to you and the others who have used it).
Quote:My statements RE: usability/intuitive design come from experience on sites just like this one. You claim I "know nothing" and I think you're losing your cool. I am not claiming to know it all, but don't say that what I know is nothing and then pat yourself on the back and call yourself "user-centric."
User-centric design has nothing to do with whether or not a user understands usability. User-centric design is achieved by observing the users needs and feedback and acting objectively on them.
What I am saying is that when you start preaching about what is intuitive based on your own impressions it often doesn't have a relation with what is actually intuitive for the new members you like to try to speak for.
I listen to lots of feedback, and act on it accordingly but that doesn't mean there is no room to express frustration with armchair quarterback who are being annoying.
Quote:I don't expect you to take my advise. Partly because I know that no person can please every person or fill every request. However, I also gather from your "jargon" that I should be conditioned to simply be complacent and not bother voicing my ideas/concerns to someone who will simply be dismiss me quickly or tell me that I don't know anything.
No, do what you like. But when you start getting annoying I'll say so. If you want to spend your time complaining and criticizing have at it. I am not trying to stop you, I am criticizing you for it because I find it annoying.
Quote:Be fair, be objective.
I am. For example the areas of tagging where you have objective and legitimate complaints are things we are working on.
When you are just overstating your opinion and speaking for the newbie experience that you don't understand I will say so.
Quote:It is for those reasons, I'm speaking up. I don't deserve your contempt.
I don't have contempt for you, I have frustration with you and see your efforts as being counter-productive. If you are going to spend so much time criticizing you should be able to take some criticism yourself.
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I've already thanked you for addressing the issue of the directories, but you decided to unload your frustration on me about the criticisms you are receiving.
I'm not frustrated with the criticism. Good criticism is a great source to find ideas for improvement.
What is frustrating is when the criticism is repeated
ad nauseum and demands to address it are made that get in the way of the actual work that needs to get done and makes the site more self-referential and less useful as a result.
Foxfyre has the same criticisms that you do in tags, for example, but hasn't frustrated me once on the issue because she's a lot less demanding and obnoxious about it. She's had her say but doesn't feel the need to try represent the whole of the community and demand answers like you have a penchant to do.
Do you see a difference?
Anything is annoying if it's repeated
ad nauseum.
Quote:Here, I agree to disagree about the functional changes made to the site. You've addressed that future changes are on the horizon. I'll share my thoughts on those in the future once I've tried them, exactly as I'm entitled to do so. Fair. Simple. Done.
And I'll share my opinion as well, Diest. My opinion is that the loudest mouths criticizing the site often have the least objective things to say and are frustrating.
When they start demanding answers it's a demand on my time that hampers my ability to get things done, and when they start speaking for others and making claims about our intent it is frustrating.
Hawkeye is who I was mainly talking about, he's not trying to better the community he has a grudge and is trying to blame the software for his unpopularity.
He started making claims about our traffic that I wanted to set straight. And when you make claims about intuitiveness for all I want to set that straight as well.
If you were merely saying that you don't like something that's fine. And when you started (with your leaving thread) it didn't bother me. But people who then decide to stay and complain incessantly do get frustrating to me. People who do nothing but talk about how great the site is would be just as frustrating if it were as prevalent, but thankfully happy folk tend to obsess less about what is right than unhappy folk with what is wrong.
I don't have contempt for it (hell it's important for me not to be emotionally invested in happy or unhappy users or I'd not have much fun), but I think you can understand why it'd be annoying at certain volumes.
It's the ad nauseum part that gets annoying, not the criticism.
Think of it like this "Too Many Topics About ____ May Alienate Some Users".