@Robert Gentel,
I heard a
very similar sermon last week. The speaker opened by stating that creators of "forgiveness" seminars noticed that most of their participants were women. When they retitled the seminars to "Grudge Management" the room filled with men.
I've been using the unattributed quote in this article as my sigline. It's Malachy McCourt, brother of Frank McCourt who is the author of
Angela's Ashes and other works.