@McGentrix,
The president is the leadership. He/she proposes the budget and sets the agenda. Congress controls the purse strings. I'm not crazy about a veto proof majority either, but the fact is that the pendulum has to swing. Somebody pulled it hard all the way to left, now we're all along for the ride.
I don't necessarily believe that Congress is the main problem right now. For the reason above, but also because I think the things I would most like to see undone are things that Bush did (yes, Congress let him do it): politicizing the justice department, undermining civil liberties, torture, guantanamo, overreaching executive power, big bloated and incompetent federal agencies, etc...