@Roberta,
First, I'm Lola, not McTag. He was kind enough to loan me his password so I could get on, but I've changed my email address and I'm not allowed to log on as my old self. When I used my old password, it didn't work. When I registered as "lolaessence" there were very few choices for how to proceed. I'm totally lost.
OK, so I didn't save my avatar, not knowing that I should. So how do I choose a new one? Or is there some way to find the old one. I kind of liked it the best.