@Johnjohnjohn,
As a good gay friend of mine once said. "Do you think I'd choose a life that led to universal discrimination and ostracism from my family if I had a choice?"
I do love how genes and DNA are so important, unless they explain how close we are to monkeys and that creationism, and the first bits of the bible are total crap.
Omg I was born male but one of my parents is female! What went wrong?