Quote:But you should keep your eyes on your husband if you do love him
I do love him but I don't feel like its IN love. It's hard to explain
Quote:Allowing yourself to dabble outside your marriage is going to hurt him
I would NEVER dream of cheating ending it would happen before I did anything like that.
I have had these feeling for a little while a month, and I have been pushing them down cause I thought it wasnt normal.
Quote:Only a year and you are already feeling this way?
This is a red flag for me.
I don't know if this relationship is worth keeping. Honestly.
You should still be in the honeymoon period.
Are you fighting at home? Not having sex? Not spending time together? Did you get married too fast or too young? Not date anyone else?
We had a huge fight about him lieing AGAIN. And he knows thats the one thing I HATE if they lie to me hes seen so many people in my life do that and yet he did it. I worked so hard to get where I am and it all was almost taken away and I would tell him how hurt I was and he would just tell me "Sorry i dont know how many times I have to tell you until you believe me"But its in a snappy tone. Nows hes asking for another chance. I used to be a huge door mat in my last relationship and I dont want to feel like that .The first he lied He said the SAMETHING hes saying now, word for word and I dont know how many of these speechs I am willing to hear. Or when I ask him things now hes snaps at me but I ask over and over cause I feel like he lies and if you dont have trust then it wont be a great marriage.
Sometimes I feel like we got married too fast.
Quote:What do you think your reaction would be, if you found your exact same post on another forum, except....it was made by your husband?
My husband knows all about my feelings I dont lie to him about anything and thats why maybe it hurts to I have never lied to him even about the bad stuff and yet he doesnt give me that back.
I guess if we both had this post up I would feel happy because he knows how torn and how hurt I truly am but sad because I did even thing in my power to treat him right and it still wasnt enough.