boomerang wrote:
Gays who adopt are typically professional, well educated, double income families, they aren't pedophiles or perverts. They are perfectly capable of raising a child better than some bigoted asshat who allows their child to bully kids at school just because they aren't quite as "lucky".
Your point above is a non-sequitor to my point. All I am saying is, giving an
ideal situation to a child includes heterosexual parents, since society is predominantly heterosexual and large segments are homophobic.
So, two couples, one heterosexual, and one homosexual, both couples professional, well educated, double income families (yes, women are professionals today and mothers too), a child, adopted or natural (lesbians can give birth), has
potential problems eliminated for the child, as a child, and as an adult, if his/her parents are heterosexual.
When all segments of society have no homophobia, it may then be the time to "utilize" children to afford homosexuals the enjoyment of raising a family, in my opinion. Until that time any children adopted by gay parents are just getting the best substitute to their biological parents that society can manage, in my opinion.
Let us stop attempting to further our positions. I believe the maxim, "any port in a storm" gives veracity to the benefits of homosexuals adopting children. I am just saying the homosexual port can never be the same as a heterosexual port of
equal quality, since a homophobic society has to be dealt with by a child adopted by homosexuals.