@north,
OmSigDAVID wrote: north wrote:what bothers me about this thread is that, the victim is sacrificed in order for those who desire this kind of abuse, the victim is never the same and is robbed of any self esteem for the rest of their life where is the victims psychology of importance here ? has it become okay to destroy the victim for sexual want ? it is so and is this another example of the ME generation ? its all about me , the consequences don't matter, I think it has, and its shamful to the extreme
Quote: I try to put myself into the mind of such a child actor, by remembering myself in childhood. It did not occur to me to raise funds by offering my services in that endeavor ( indeed, I did not work at all, not needing additional cash ), but it seems to me that if I had accepted that job, I 'd not have been "sacrificed" nor woud my self esteem have been affected, neither then nor now, many decades later.
north wrote:so you weren't abused
I have never been abused in any way that I can remember. I was interested in the reasoning of your post, as to
WHAT u had in mind, in a specific sense. Do u choose to reveal what u believe happens in this regard ?
north wrote: it all about the abuser its the "me " generation from the sixties, thats the way I look at it anyway
The
ME Generation was supposed to be the1980s: the Reagan Era.
I
LOVE to probe psychology. To me, how people think,
is magneticly interesting as a goal in itself. I am interested
in
understanding your opinions and understanding the reasoning that
underlies your opinions.
How about a
THOUGHT EXPERIMENT: (Thay are
fun.)
Let 's imagine that I can and do go back in time
to when I was 1O years old. I discover that
instead of enjoying sex for free, I can get a job
that
PAYS me for it, with photografy involved.
I agree with the photografer in regard to compensation,
maybe $2OO an hour and we proceed with erotic entertainment.
At the end of the day, he pays me and I go on my way.
As u see it
: HOW does the
"sacrifice" and the negative
self esteem become involved ?