@north,
north wrote:what bothers me about this thread is that, the victim is sacrificed in order for those who desire this kind of abuse, the victim is never the same and is robbed of any self esteem for the rest of their life where is the victims psychology of importance here ? has it become okay to destroy the victim for sexual want ? it is so and is this another example of the ME generation ? its all about me , the consequences don't matter, I think it has, and its shamful to the extreme
I try to put myself into the mind of such a child actor,
by remembering myself in childhood.
It did not occur to me to raise funds by offering my services in that endeavor
( indeed, I did not work at all, not needing additional cash ),
but it seems to me that
if I had accepted that job,
I 'd not have been "sacrificed" nor woud my self esteem have been affected,
neither then nor now, many decades later. I have only
normal sex
in mind -- nothing weird, no whips nor chains, etc.
Indeed, I felt good then and now, in regard to the sexual pleasure
that I had then
FOR FREE. If I had considered it, I 'd surely
have believed that its better to get
paid for it.
As a child, my vu of life was that
"its all about me" (as u put it).
Can u be more
specific in identifying the problems that u see ?