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Is it wrong to view child pornography?

 
 
hawkeye10
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 12:30 pm
@joefromchicago,
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Agrote, it turned out, was merely looking for an ethical loophole that would allow him to conform to society's condemnation of child pornography in general while still viewing it himself in practice. His was an inherently dishonest position that had little to do with a desire to redefine the way we look at child porn and a great deal to do with his desire to indulge his own perversions with a clear conscience.
where is the dishonesty? Looking for permission or a way to do what we want to do is something that we do everyday, all of us. I think highly of a person who feels the need to clear the bar of collective morality before they pursue their passions, such a person is much less dangerous than is the person who lies about what they are doing and does not care what anyone else thinks. You should be giving Agrote back slaps for being a decent guy rather than slamming him as dishonest.
hawkeye10
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 12:36 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
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In fairness, before something is categorized as being "ridiculous" its advocate
shoud be given the opportunity to express his justification.
it has been awhile, be we have had drawn out debate on this matter at A2K....what it boils down to is that the advocates of criminalization can not make any connection between the porn and damage to that child, that they are claiming that all children are in danger of being damaged because allegedly a guy who looks at pics of children is more likely to violate a child. This is in spite of evidence that looking at porn takes the edge off the itch, so they are actually less likely to feel the need to violate a child. They still want the child to be able to sue for civil damages however, because the reality is that what they really want is an excuse to use the hammer on people that they dont like.

We have the same debate about porn and the damaging of women, and in particular games such as Rapelay, where those who want to criminalize it claim that it will prompt men to want to rape women, but they can come up with no proof, only theories which rely on the assumption that men suck and can not be trusted.
north
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 01:02 pm
@hawkeye10,

Quote:
In fairness, before something is categorized as being "ridiculous" its advocate
shoud be given the opportunity to express his justification.


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it has been awhile, be we have had drawn out debate on this matter at A2K....what it boils down to is that the advocates of criminalization can not make any connection between the porn and damage to that child, that they are claiming that all children are in danger of being damaged because allegedly a guy who looks at pics of children is more likely to violate a child. This is in spite of evidence that looking at porn takes the edge off the itch, so they are actually less likely to feel the need to violate a child. They still want the child to be able to sue for civil damages however, because the reality is that what they really want is an excuse to use the hammer on people that they dont like.


yet child abuse , still happens , alot

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We have the same debate about porn and the damaging of women, and in particular games such as Rapelay, where those who want to criminalize it claim that it will prompt men to want to rape women, but they can come up with no proof, only theories which rely on the assumption that men suck and can not be trusted.


de-criminalizing prosituition could be a good step here



isn't time
hawkeye10
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 01:07 pm
@hawkeye10,
Another thing that sinks the advocates is that they refuse to back down from making criminals out of people who take pics of their two year olds in the bathtub. This is insane. Looking at naked pictures of people does not in any way indicate a desire to violate people. Looking at pics of kids being sexual in an unnatural way MIGHT be, but we must remember that most of what the state calls child porn and a criminal matter are pics of kids either lightly dressed or naked acting like kids. The perception is that child porn is like my XXX dvd's but with kids instead of adults doing the sex, which is 1000 miles from what the state calls child porn most of the time.

Another slam on the advocates is their insistence that animation of child erotism should be a criminal matter even though the proof that no child was harmed is iron clad This has gone by the boards somewhat as the Japanese produce a lot of this stuff and are not interested in stopping, so with the internet being what it is there is not a lot that the American Prudes can do about it. Likewise the Japanese like mock rapes in their porn, which the Americans would like to be rid of but cant manage for the moment.
hawkeye10
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 01:10 pm
@north,
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yet child abuse , still happens , alot
no, like rape in general child sexual abuse rates in America are at multi-generational lows. In order the bump up the numbers advocates continue to redefine downwards what abuse is.
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joefromchicago
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 01:15 pm
@hawkeye10,
hawkeye10 wrote:
where is the dishonesty? Looking for permission or a way to do what we want to do is something that we do everyday, all of us. I think highly of a person who feels the need to clear the bar of collective morality before they pursue their passions, such a person is much less dangerous than is the person who lies about what they are doing and does not care what anyone else thinks.

Agrote wasn't trying to "clear the bar of collective morality," he was trying to find a way to sneak under that bar. He didn't want society to stop condemning child porn, he simply wanted to find an exception that would apply to him. My problem with Agrote , therefore, was not that he was a pedophile, it was that he was a hypocritical pedophile.

hawkeye10 wrote:
You should be giving Agrote back slaps for being a decent guy rather than slamming him as dishonest.

Sorry, there will be no back slapping.
north
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 01:19 pm
@hawkeye10,
hawkeye10 wrote:

Another thing that sinks the advocates is that they refuse to back down from making criminals out of people who take pics of their two year olds in the bathtub. This is insane. Looking at naked pictures of people does not in any way indicate a desire to violate people. Looking at pics of kids being sexual in an unnatural way MIGHT be, but we must remember that most of what the state calls child porn and a criminal matter are pics of kids either lightly dressed or naked acting like kids. The perception is that child porn is like my XXX dvd's but with kids instead of adults doing the sex, which is 1000 miles from what the state calls child porn most of the time.


its not about what is legal and whats not for goodness sake

don't you get it

hawkeye10
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 01:29 pm
@joefromchicago,
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hyp·o·crit·i·cal  [hip-uh-krit-i-kuhl] Show IPA
adjective
1.
of the nature of hypocrisy, or pretense of having virtues, beliefs, principles, etc., that one does not actually possess: The parent who has a “do what I say and not what I do” attitude can appear hypocritical to a child.
2.
possessing the characteristics of hypocrisy: Isn't a politician hypocritical for talking about human dignity while voting against reasonable social programs?


http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/hypocritical

There was no dishonesty that we know of with Agrote, no claiming of one thing when he believes another that we are aware of. What it boils down to is that he insisted that he is a moral person and based upon what he likes you insist that he is not..... you are claiming that his appetite by definition makes him immoral, which shows that you dont understand the definition of immorality. He and you disagree on what the moral code states, but given that he continually indicated that morality is important to him and that following the moral code of the collective is important to him he was never due your criticism of him being not moral or being dishonest.
hawkeye10
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 01:32 pm
@north,
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its not about what is legal and whats not for goodness sake
It is for me, because my main interest in the matter is the state continuing to push into my personal space with the sex law portion of the criminal code, with the state abuse of the citizen in the project to craft human behavior as the prudes desire it to be conducted.
north
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 01:44 pm
@hawkeye10,

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its not about what is legal and whats not for goodness sake


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It is for me, because my main interest in the matter is the state continuing to push into my personal space with the sex law portion of the criminal code, with the state abuse of the citizen in the project to craft human behavior as the prudes desire it to be conducted.


so its about you then

NOT on the health and well-being of the child involved

see thats the difference between you and me ( and will be unless you can grow to be a better person )

and understand the damage to the child and their generation and generations forward
joefromchicago
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 05:26 pm
@hawkeye10,
hawkeye10 wrote:
There was no dishonesty that we know of with Agrote, no claiming of one thing when he believes another that we are aware of. What it boils down to is that he insisted that he is a moral person and based upon what he likes you insist that he is not..... you are claiming that his appetite by definition makes him immoral, which shows that you dont understand the definition of immorality.

No, that just shows that you don't understand my position. I never said that Agrote's "appetites" made him, by definition, immoral, I'm arguing that his holding inconsistent positions simultaneously made him, by definition, a hypocrite. Agrote established that he was immoral by his own standards -- he didn't need me saying that. He wanted a rule that said "child pornography is wrong," but he also wanted to be able to say "but in my case, I'll make an exception." Yet he never explained to anyone's satisfaction -- except, perhaps, his own -- why an exception should have been made in his case.
hawkeye10
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 05:40 pm
@north,
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so its about you then

NOT on the health and well-being of the child involved


If the state is going to take away my freedom then they need damn good reason for doing so. Patently false assertions that kids are being hurt because of my freedom deserve to be shot down. I am certainly not one of those fools that says that if it saves one child from being harmed then the freedom must be removed from all. Rights are competing, and when they come into conflict there must be compromise, you do not take away rights from all citizens in the attempt to protect certain classes of citizens unless you can show that the harm is so egregious that the trespass on the rights of the citizens is justified. The bar should be set very high. It is currently not set high, as the government has taken to abusing its citizens in the attempt to create a utopia. This being the case the government must be whipped into line, it is time to cut back government, time for the citizens to reassert and reaffirm our rights to be free from government.
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hawkeye10
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 06:03 pm
@joefromchicago,
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He wanted a rule that said "child pornography is wrong," but he also wanted to be able to say "but in my case, I'll make an exception." Yet he never explained to anyone's satisfaction -- except, perhaps, his own -- why an exception should have been made in his case.
Perhaps, but that is not how I remember it. My recollection is that he and I were in agreement that child porn is sometimes not wrong, that actual harm to a particular child must be shown before government gains the right to take away the freedom of the citizens.
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Robert Gentel
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 08:10 pm
@joefromchicago,
That's not how I remember it. I remember him arguing that being a pedophile is not a choice and that merely consuming CP was not unethical as long as the viewer harmed no children. He extended this ethical position to mean not paying for it and thereby not funding it but merely consuming it.

I managed to convince him to reconsider the bulk of that position when I argued:

1) That just knowing that there are people out there that may be viewing the abuse could be deeply harmful to the victim.

2) That allowing such consumption would make it more difficult to combat the victimizations in the first place.

3) That a pedophile should not seek to satiate this particular urge through pornography. That it could lead to an escalation of the paraphilia if it is not enough, through desensitization etc. On this point we had some disagreement, as he asked for science to substantiate this claim and I was unable to provide anything convincing (by its nature it's not an easy thing to study and I know of no such study that is conclusive).

4) That he may not have had much of a significant chronophilia in the first place (he was very young himself, and after someone "outed" his Facebook page it became clear that he looked even younger) and that when a teen who looks 12 says he's attracted to girls that age it's not necessarily pedophilia, at the very most he may have had hebephilia but his explanation that he was occasionally attracted to girls that weren't chronologically discordant may indicate that this was just a phase of his where he, due to his awkwardness, was going through a phase. He didn't really respond to this suggestion but it's still one I find probable. That he was as much a socially awkward teenager that was developing slowly as he was a person afflicted with a chronophilia.
Robert Gentel
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 08:14 pm
@joefromchicago,
joefromchicago wrote:
Agrote wasn't trying to "clear the bar of collective morality," he was trying to find a way to sneak under that bar. He didn't want society to stop condemning child porn, he simply wanted to find an exception that would apply to him. My problem with Agrote , therefore, was not that he was a pedophile, it was that he was a hypocritical pedophile.


Again, this isn't how I remembered it at all. He claimed he did not consume CP, but was afflicted by pedophilia and had the urges and was discussing a hypothetical ethical argument. He also publicly conceded that his argument was partly wrong.

Edit: some of that argument spilled over on to other threads. Most of what I'm talking about is at the end of this thread: http://able2know.org/topic/119532-1
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Robert Gentel
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 08:17 pm
@joefromchicago,
joefromchicago wrote:
He wanted a rule that said "child pornography is wrong," but he also wanted to be able to say "but in my case, I'll make an exception." Yet he never explained to anyone's satisfaction -- except, perhaps, his own -- why an exception should have been made in his case.


His argument was not him versus others but creation vs consumption. And he lost the argument, when he was convinced that societal tolerance for consumption would very likely cause harm.

Here he states it unequivocally: http://able2know.org/topic/119532-4#post-3319411

agrote wrote:
For the last time, I no longer think that the viewing of child porn is okay. I'm sorry, but I happen to be an open-minded person and I happen to have been convinced by some of the arguments against my former position. I don't understand why nobody is pleased that I've stopped holding the views that made you so angry in the first place.
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OmSigDAVID
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 10:00 pm

There was a somewhat related (semi-off topic?) controversy on the CBS TV news this evening,
concerning teenagers grudgingly being invited to have sex at home,
instead of out somewhere (potentially less safe) in the world,
if thay were going to do it anyway, regardless of their parents' preferences.





David
Rockhead
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 10:05 pm
@OmSigDAVID,
were they filming it?
OmSigDAVID
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 10:11 pm
@Rockhead,
Rockhead wrote:
were they filming it?
I don 't think so.
What if the lovers chose to raise cash by putting up a camera
and selling the results? Shoud thay then be morally (or legally)
entitled to civilly sue anyone (purchasers) who sees their published photografy?

North, do u have an opinion on that point ?





David
joefromchicago
 
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Mon 10 Oct, 2011 11:13 pm
@Robert Gentel,
Robert Gentel wrote:

That's not how I remember it. I remember him arguing that being a pedophile is not a choice and that merely consuming CP was not unethical as long as the viewer harmed no children. He extended this ethical position to mean not paying for it and thereby not funding it but merely consuming it.

Then you remember it as I do. You're just describing it differently.
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