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Thu 5 Jun, 2008 06:03 pm
Did he break up with me because of the ESP?
No
I don't think the ESP had anything to do with it. Take that ESP and turn it into something great. good luck!
I think it's more likely that he broke up with you because he's 14... The 14-year-olds I've known broke up and got back together and went out with new people every five minutes-- a few weeks seems like just about the typical lifespan of a "romance" at that age! Try not to have hurt feelings over it.
Most girls of your age go out with older guys, since boy are generally a bit behind when it comes to maturity at that age.
Your little friend definitely seems to be.
I think as little he was thinking about his romantic messages, as little is he now considering your feelings.
I doubt that you did anything wrong.
This guy is simply not ready for a serious relationship.
Accept that and move on!
Shouldnt this be in the relationships Section anways? And Not to sound mean...but.....Well....No,Nevermind...
Re: Did he break up with me because of the ESP?
Mariceloverthere wrote:....But I still feel crushed. What do you think of this situation? Did he truly love me and was he just afraid of his parents or afraid of what people would think- or was he really just playing a joke on me?
Hun, he's 14...way to young to know what love really is. You're young and have your whole life ahead of you. Forget about him.
Actually, it wasn't ESP. On the afternoon before he broke up with me- I prayed he would only want me as a friend. He said to me in a text that night "Understand I like you as a friend." I said "I thought u said I was your only luv?" He said "No- I don't like it- it's disgusting!" Wow I was upset with what he said. I asked "Are you still attracted to me?" And he said "No." I think the prayer must have worked. Do you think the prayer changed his feeling? I regret this- I shouldn't have prayed- I only prayed to see what would happen. It was only a test to see if the prayer would work. I didn't think it would happen. And maybe I didn't really pray- maybe I thought I did. I have OCD so I keep trying to remember if I really prayed or not... i'M very disturbed about this..
And why did he say "No- I don't like it- it's disgusting!" when just a few days ago he said I am the only one he loves? Did the prayer change his heart?
Nope, he's just a 14-year-old boy and they change their minds ALL the time.
Don't give it a second thought. Really.
I think his friend Mike was doing all the texting.