We did not all come out OK!
I don't think my parents ever claimed so either.
My sister is 38, mentally handicapped and still lives with my parents.
This is, however, likely to be caused by childhood vaccination, not smoking and drinking.
Mother love covers even permanent ugly ducklings.
i hope my kids come out okay. i purposely stopped smoking marijuana when i discovered i was 2 weeks pregnant with the oldest.
but i wonder if i had kept smoking it would it be like 'pre treatment' for any glaucoma she might get in her older years... hmmm
Bi-Polar Bear wrote:define okay...
I guess whatever you consider o-k - I guess you need to be able to care for yourself, and have no physical issues at birth or something discovered later in life (that could be associated as a result of something happening while a fetus)