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Can you be perverted behind the door?

 
 
dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2008 04:44 pm
hawkeye10 wrote:
For those who blow my sex law concerns off as the evil vomit of a misogynist I give you:
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Rape-Law Reform circa June 2002


Has the Pendulum Swung Too Far?
STEPHEN SCHULHOFER

Robert B. McKay Professor of Law, New York University Law School, New York, New York 10012, USA

Address for correspondence: Stephen Schulhofer, Robert B. McKay, Professor of Law, New York University Law School, 40 Washington Square South, New York, NY 10012. Voice: 212-998-6260; fax: 212-995-4692.
[email protected]
Ann. N.Y. Acad. Sci. 989: 276-287 (2003).


This paper reviews court decisions determining the scope of liability for rape over the period 1998-2002. It finds many troubling signs that some courts, under some circumstances, are still wedded to the traditional (very strict) view of the kind of force necessary to support a charge of rape. There are, however, signs of encouraging progress: convictions in circumstances where even a decision to prosecute would have been unthinkable 20 years ago, and holdings that accept power, authority, or indirect intimidation as sufficient "force." Is it possible to go too far in this direction? And is there any reason to worry that this could actually happen in reality? The research identifies several areas in which this surprising possibility may be about to materialize, for example on the normatively and practically difficult question of the degree of intoxication or alcohol-induced willingness sufficient to invalidate consent.

http://www.annalsnyas.org/cgi/content/abstract/989/1/276




POnce again...where is your proof that in American law the presumption of innocence has been reversed.


Laws please.


I don't know what things are like in America...but you have made a big claim.

Back it.


Law reversing presumption of innocence for sexual assault.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2008 04:47 pm
As to how the feminists have pushed the use of rape law to even their score against men:
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http://law.jrank.org/pages/1222/Feminism-Legal-Aspects-second-wave-critique-rape-law.html
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OGIONIK
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2008 04:51 pm
it doesnt matter its his life it doesnt affect anyone unless they let it affect them. its part of being grown-up.

everyone usually likes sex.

some like different sex than others.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2008 05:11 pm
dlowan wrote:

POnce again...where is your proof that in American law the presumption of innocence has been reversed.


Laws please.


I don't know what things are like in America...but you have made a big claim.

Back it.


Law reversing presumption of innocence for sexual assault.



http://www.jstor.org/pss/1341652
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dlowan
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2008 06:03 pm
hawkeye10 wrote:
dlowan wrote:

POnce again...where is your proof that in American law the presumption of innocence has been reversed.


Laws please.


I don't know what things are like in America...but you have made a big claim.

Back it.


Law reversing presumption of innocence for sexual assault.



http://www.jstor.org/pss/1341652





i can't access that. LAWS please. Quote the LAWS you claim exist.


By the way, the article you quoted above does not, as usual, support the claims you claim it supports.


The bit you quoted actually notes how unfair rape laws have been to WOMEN, and goes on to say that it is possible that attempts to redress this may be about to swing the balance the other way.....may be about to.


Just as a little balancer to your constant theme about how badly men are done to by any woman who aspires to be more than a piece of seagull pooh on the windscreen of life, I would be interested in how many men you think will rape women, children and other men over the next 24 hours, and get away with it completely.


Hell, in some countries we have the added bonus that the woman will be murdered by her family, if it is discovered that she has been raped.


By the way: I would be interested to hear you outline fully your ideas for a perfect legal system re sexual assault.


Anybody with the brain and research abilities of a microbe is able to ascertain that the system has been grossly weighted against victims in the past, and your belief appears to be that currently no man dare have sex because all women are just waiting to charge him with rape as soon as he whips his willy out.....what's your idea for a fair system?


The appearance you give is that you are in favour of anything goes for men....I'd be interested to see if you have a reality behind your obsessively misogynist appearance that is different.

Hell, for all I know, there may be some truth in your view re the US.....I don't know.


I haven't seen anything from you that gives weight to what you say, but I do note other American men making the same claim.

How do we make a system fair to all?
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Mon 19 May, 2008 06:18 pm
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Only the New Jersey Supreme Court has greatly deviated from its state's statutory force requirement. The court interpreted the victim's non-consent as satisfying the statute's force requirement. New Jersey ex rel. M.T.S., 609 A.2d 1266, 1276 (N.J. 1992) (stating that because the victim is not required to resist, she does not need to say or do anything for the sexual penetration to be unlawful). In a narrower way, three other states may be limiting their statutory force requirements as well. see People v. Iniguez, 872 P.2d 1183, 1189 (Cal. 1994) (establishing that resistance is not required to prove sexual assault); State v. Borthwick, 880 P.2d 1261, 1271 (Kan. 1994) (stating that the relevant statute requires a finding that the victim did not give her consent and that she was overcome by force or fear to facilitate intercourse but not that the victim was overcome by force in the form of a beating or physical restraint); State v. Gamez, 494 N.W.2d 84, 87 (Minn. Ct. App. 1992) (holding that evidence of coercion through creation of fear is sufficient to affirm a conviction for criminal sexual conduct). Nevertheless, there are few reported cases in New Jersey in which the defendant did not employ extrinsic force or a threat of such force. Likewise, in the seven states in which the criminal law statute does not require force, the case law is not markedly different from that in states in which there is a statutory force requirement
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_qa3735/is_200507/ai_n15957751/pg_13

In other words new jersey rules that if the "victim" did not either consent or non consent because she feared the alleged rapists, then force was used and the man is a rapist. In order for the man to be found innocent he must prove that the sex was consensual, and that no coercion was used. The burden of proof is on the accused once the "victim" claims a state of mind of fear during the act, warranted or not
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agrote
 
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Reply Tue 20 May, 2008 02:37 am
hawkeye10 wrote:
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The Government has more clearly defined consent in the proposed laws and Mr Atkinson said a person would not need to tell an alleged offender to stop if they decided not to continue engaging in sexual activity.

"I think a scream would be sufficient," Mr Atkinson said.

"We don't want to punish men for being inadvertent or negligent but we do want to punish them for reckless indifference to whether a woman was consenting to their sexual advances," he said.


But over all the laws have changed, the default was the presumption of consent, today in almost all courts the default is the presumption of lack of consent. The accused now must prove that consent was given. Given the hazy nature of sexual consent between normally sexual humans this a big change. For those who practice abnormal sexuality the swing in presumption is even more of a slam against men.


Let me get this straight... do you think it should legal for a man to continue to have sex with a woman, even if she starts screaming and obviously doesn't want the sex to continue?
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agrote
 
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Reply Wed 21 May, 2008 03:30 am
A simple 'yes' or 'no' will do.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Wed 21 May, 2008 07:21 pm
agrote wrote:
Let me get this straight... do you think it should legal for a man to continue to have sex with a woman, even if she starts screaming and obviously doesn't want the sex to continue?


No, I think that women have a point that the old laws that said that a woman is assumed to have consented unless it is proven that she has not were unfair to women. I also think that the current laws that say that a woman is assumed to have not consented unless it is proven that she has are unfair to men. The correct starting assumption is that it is not known what the state of consent was unless one state or the other can be proven.
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agrote
 
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Reply Thu 22 May, 2008 03:34 am
hawkeye10 wrote:
agrote wrote:
Let me get this straight... do you think it should legal for a man to continue to have sex with a woman, even if she starts screaming and obviously doesn't want the sex to continue?


No, I think that women have a point that the old laws that said that a woman is assumed to have consented unless it is proven that she has not were unfair to women. I also think that the current laws that say that a woman is assumed to have not consented unless it is proven that she has are unfair to men. The correct starting assumption is that it is not known what the state of consent was unless one state or the other can be proven.


That sounds like a return to the first option: assuming innocence until guilt is proved. In theory we can assume that we don't know what the state of consent was, but in practice we either lock up the defendant or we don't. You are trying to avoid locking people up if guilt has not been proven, which I can understand. But this amounts to behaving as if we assume that the woman consented and that the man is not guilty. I don't see how you can avoid both of the two options that you reject.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Thu 22 May, 2008 05:08 pm
agrote wrote:

That sounds like a return to the first option: assuming innocence until guilt is proved. In theory we can assume that we don't know what the state of consent was, but in practice we either lock up the defendant or we don't. You are trying to avoid locking people up if guilt has not been proven, which I can understand. But this amounts to behaving as if we assume that the woman consented and that the man is not guilty. I don't see how you can avoid both of the two options that you reject.


In the way that I have already explained; you take almost all of these relationship disputes out of the legal establishment and you put them in the public/private health establishment. Just about every person who has gone in for relationship counseling has been told I am sure that putting energy into figuring out who is to blame for problems and past events is a poor use of energy, that the correct thing to do it to figure out how not to get into those situations, and to build a better life. We choose to blame and punish rather than teach, because we are stupid that way.
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agrote
 
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Reply Fri 23 May, 2008 02:08 am
We're talking about rape here. I imagine that in many cases the rape victim will not want to continue a relationship with the rapist. Building a better life may mean building a life that does not involve the abusive partner. What if the abusive partner continues to pose a threat? The law intervenes and locks him up for the crime of rape. Not to punish him, and not because he is to blame for anything, but because he is a danger to other people. If he can be rehabilitated, tgreat. But I'm not sure that relationship counselling will do the trick, in many cases at least.

Your suggestion - to take disputes over rape within relationships out of the legal establishment - amounts to legalising rape. It amounts to behaving as if consent is assumed, which is something which I thought you wanted to avoid. You said it was unfair to women.

Anyway, what about being raped by a stranger? Would you keep that in the legal establishment?
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dlowan
 
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Reply Fri 23 May, 2008 02:24 am
hawkeye10 wrote:
agrote wrote:

That sounds like a return to the first option: assuming innocence until guilt is proved. In theory we can assume that we don't know what the state of consent was, but in practice we either lock up the defendant or we don't. You are trying to avoid locking people up if guilt has not been proven, which I can understand. But this amounts to behaving as if we assume that the woman consented and that the man is not guilty. I don't see how you can avoid both of the two options that you reject.


In the way that I have already explained; you take almost all of these relationship disputes out of the legal establishment and you put them in the public/private health establishment. Just about every person who has gone in for relationship counseling has been told I am sure that putting energy into figuring out who is to blame for problems and past events is a poor use of energy, that the correct thing to do it to figure out how not to get into those situations, and to build a better life. We choose to blame and punish rather than teach, because we are stupid that way.



Rape is a relationship problem.


Not a crime.


I see.



You really are something. Something very scary, especially because I reckon there a re a lot of you out there.


I wonder how you would frame rape if you had experienced it, or if you had the sense and empathy of an amoeba.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 23 May, 2008 06:13 pm
dlowan wrote:

Rape is a relationship problem.


Not a crime.


I see.



You really are something. Something very scary, especially because I reckon there a re a lot of you out there.


I wonder how you would frame rape if you had experienced it, or if you had the sense and empathy of an amoeba.


A crime is what ever we decide is a crime, we very recently decided to make sexual disagreements between individuals in ongoing relationships a crime, and we likewise have the power to go back to not considering it a crime. Looking at human history we are the freaks, almost no one else ever alive has considered much of what we call rape a crime. In America we have gone so far as to punish the one considered guilty for life by making them carry the label of sexual offender, and taking away many of their rights and now also their ability to make a living.

Just as success in the fight against Childhood sexual abuse is not measured by or gotten to by punishing the abuser, success in the fight against adult rape is not found by way of punishment. Success is ending Childhood sexual abuse and ending rape. Ending CSA must be done by not creating adults who want to have sex with kids, ending rape is found by not creating encounters where one of the people feels that that have been sexually violated. But violation is not the sole function of the actions of one person, it is also a product of the expectations and emotional state of both of the individuals. In some cases Rape should be punished in the courts, but in many cases it should not because criminalizing the behaviour gets in the way of bettering the conditions that at least in part created the feelings of violation. We need to teach people to be good at their sexual relationships, not spend all of our time trying to hurt those who are bad at it. Sound familiar.....this is the same lunacy America pursues in its effort to end the drug problem. Fifty years , countless lives broken by the actions of the government and hundreds of billions of dollars spent have achieved no success, and yet we never change course. Courts and prisons are only sometimes the most effective way to achieve societal change for the better, and in the case of sex and drugs not only does criminalization not help the situation, it hurts the cause.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Fri 23 May, 2008 06:19 pm
agrote wrote:
We're talking about rape here. I imagine that in many cases the rape victim will not want to continue a relationship with the rapist. Building a better life may mean building a life that does not involve the abusive partner. What if the abusive partner continues to pose a threat? The law intervenes and locks him up for the crime of rape. Not to punish him, and not because he is to blame for anything, but because he is a danger to other people. If he can be rehabilitated, tgreat. But I'm not sure that relationship counselling will do the trick, in many cases at least.

Your suggestion - to take disputes over rape within relationships out of the legal establishment - amounts to legalising rape. It amounts to behaving as if consent is assumed, which is something which I thought you wanted to avoid. You said it was unfair to women.

Anyway, what about being raped by a stranger? Would you keep that in the legal establishment?


There is no need for both people in treatment to continue in their relationship for them to be helped by health professionals.

Legalization in the sense that if there is not criminal punishment then there is not illegality...I suppose. But the society through the institution of government has other ways to reach out and touch those who need corrective action other than by way of the criminal courts. In any public health action their must be way to force individuals into treatment if they will not go willingly, however criminal proceedings are usually not needed to get what is needed from the wayward individual. The threat of legal sanctions for not following the treatment program most often does the trick.
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agrote
 
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Reply Sat 24 May, 2008 02:39 am
hawkeye10 wrote:
There is no need for both people in treatment to continue in their relationship for them to be helped by health professionals.


I never denied that. I said that relationship counselling would be inappropriate if the relationship ended, and that legal action would be useful for the protection of the abused partner.

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Legalization in the sense that if there is not criminal punishment then there is not illegality...I suppose. But the society through the institution of government has other ways to reach out and touch those who need corrective action other than by way of the criminal courts. In any public health action their must be way to force individuals into treatment if they will not go willingly, however criminal proceedings are usually not needed to get what is needed from the wayward individual. The threat of legal sanctions for not following the treatment program most often does the trick.


Why confine this idea to rape? Why not treat all current crimes as public health issues?
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sat 24 May, 2008 09:29 am
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I never denied that. I said that relationship counselling would be inappropriate if the relationship ended, and that legal action would be useful for the protection of the abused partner.

Restraining orders can always be had, even if the original violation is handled in a health setting rather than a criminal justice setting.


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Why confine this idea to rape? Why not treat all current crimes as public health issues?



Only some of individual behaviour is driven by passions which can not be corrected by criminal sanctions. Problems related to sex, drugs and alcohol are more often better handled outside of the courts except for the most extreme situations. Rape not tied up with relationship dynamics, major drug dealing, and drunk driving do belong in the courts, those who do those things should be locked up, but they are a small fraction of the deviant sexual practitioners, drug users, and alcohol users.
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agrote
 
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Reply Sun 25 May, 2008 08:59 am
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Restraining orders can always be had, even if the original violation is handled in a health setting rather than a criminal justice setting.


True. I'd be worried that people who have raped their partners might be prone to do the same thing to future partners. In which case a restraining order from normal society would be in order (i.e. jail). But it's an empirical question whether men who rape their wives do it out of a tendency to rape wives in general, or whether it usually arises due to issues which are specific to particular relationships (so that the man would be no more likely than the average man to rape future partners). I don't know the answer to this question, but I think it needs answering before you presume that the rapists in question pose a danger only to the rape victim and not to women in general.

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Only some of individual behaviour is driven by passions which can not be corrected by criminal sanctions. Problems related to sex, drugs and alcohol are more often better handled outside of the courts except for the most extreme situations. Rape not tied up with relationship dynamics, major drug dealing, and drunk driving do belong in the courts, those who do those things should be locked up, but they are a small fraction of the deviant sexual practitioners, drug users, and alcohol users.


What evidence do you base these claims on? How do you know that rapists can't be corrected by criminal sanctions? And how do you know that, say, murder is not driven by passions that cannot be corrected by criminal sanctions? Why not make murder a public health issue?
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 25 May, 2008 09:47 am
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What evidence do you base these claims on? How do you know that rapists can't be corrected by criminal sanctions? And how do you know that, say, murder is not driven by passions that cannot be corrected by criminal sanctions? Why not make murder a public health issue?
You can't change normal human behaviour by making a law against it. The feminists want to outlaw aggressive sexuality however this is a normal part of human sexuality. As I showed earlier the feminists mean to reorder normal gender interaction by creating a social structure where women no longer follow the lead of men, want to punish men who try to lead women even if the women desire to follow the men. In their mind women do not have the right to consent to being submissive or even to follow the historic feminine behaviour patterns, they look at these women not as whole humans but as damaged humans locked in a cycle of abuse. The trouble is that this view is wrong, women follow men sexually because that is the natural play between the masculine and feminine....it is the nature of the dance. Feminists can't change the dance with laws and punishment, the drive to follow our soul and our nature is far too strong.

Feminists can encourage women to be more masculine, and they do, but unless they can find feminine men they will not find suitable mates. Pushing women to be masculine does not serve the well being of the overall society, so I object on those grounds, and because I personally object to being pushed to become a feminine man, as men are pushed because as always relationships must be balanced in order to work. In a relationship if one person changes the other must change so that the two are complimentary, so that they will work together. Likewise, if women generally change the men will need to generally change as well, if men and women are to be together. And contrary to the feminine clap trap about the glory of the freedom to no longer need/want a mate, the family structure is too important to the health of the society to be thrown away for the sake of the feminists' utopia fantasy.

More generally, attempts to legislate passions and morality always fail, and always will fail. Continued attempts at trying betray a deep rooted ignorance of human nature.

Everybody knows the punishment for killing someone, yet we still kill each other. Even when states like Texas make the punishment the state killing of the offender the crimes still happen. Making a law, hurting the perps, does not keep the unwanted action from taking place. The purpose of the law is to exact retribution, it is not to promote societal health except in the sense of removing known perps from the society.
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hawkeye10
 
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Reply Sun 25 May, 2008 10:28 am
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True. I'd be worried that people who have raped their partners might be prone to do the same thing to future partners. In which case a restraining order from normal society would be in order (i.e. jail). But it's an empirical question whether men who rape their wives do it out of a tendency to rape wives in general, or whether it usually arises due to issues which are specific to particular relationships (so that the man would be no more likely than the average man to rape future partners). I don't know the answer to this question, but I think it needs answering before you presume that the rapists in question pose a danger only to the rape victim and not to women in general


However, a woman feeling raped might say more about the dynamics in that relationship than it does about the man being dangerous. We don't know, and only an expert who is allowed into the relationship in a counseling setting can know. To assume that the man is wrong when the woman feels wronged is to assume guilt. A skilled impartial third party must try to figure out where the truth lies.

If the man was wrong, as he likely was at least in part, then putting the redress into the health setting does not let him skate free to go about hurting other women. Counseling can be mandated, a record to be used in future events can be created, monitoring can take place. Also, I am not completely apposed to promoting public safety by making a man who gets into situations where women feel raped ineligible for certain occupations.
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