A consistent small difference in biology and brain chemistry between the genders leads to some major differences in perception of the same reality.
The problem with feminism is that women DAMAND (sic) that men adopt their perception...injustices of the past are not my fault...
Ummm, I am a mystic.....I don't share your high appreciation of objective truth over subjective truth.
injustices claimed to be current and my fault need to be proven to me before i take them seriously.
We also know this by America basically making illegal racial and gender specific social organization.
Sure spiritual depth is missing, but so is richness of personality, so is the ability to function independently of the collective (not a slave to fads, the conventional wisdom, the mob mentality), so is the ability and willingness to examine life and humanity.
Thanks, cat. It's a shame he hasn't responded.
agrote wrote:I think that i have sufficiently given my explanation for why the project of Feminism failed. Given that you don't agree that it has failed we don't have much to talk about, there is not enough common ground to continue.Thanks, cat. It's a shame he hasn't responded.
Given that I don't expect the movement to reemerge during my life time I don't have a great deal of patience for a theoretical argument about feminism, though i am interested in reversing the idiotic sex laws that the last generation of feminists championed.
If you have no desire to hold discussions with people who disagree with your ideas... what are you doing in a debate forum?
Avoiding such discussions is a dangerous thing to do, especially when your ideas are somewhat extreme, and on the face of it seem quite implausible. If you can't defend your views against objection or scrutiny, then there's a decent chance that you're wrong. And if you don't try to defend them, you'll never know this. This is why there are racists: if you ignore all the arguments against your position, you can get away with believing just about anything
Feminism never properly took into account that the price of fighting with men over power would be that men would look at them and find them less desirable.
...Never properly took into account that power is not one of the main things that most women want, and that fighting about power gets in the way of women getting what they want.
Assuming that you want your own and other people's beliefs to be as close to the truth as possible, there is always profit in subjecting your ideas and arguments to the scrutiny of other people, especially those who you completely disagree with. If you can't clearly explain your disagreement, there is reason to doubt that it is justified
I suppose I have implied that the ethics of gender and sexual relationships should be controlled by reason. But this is completely different from the claim that gender and sexual relationships themselves actually are controlled by reason. It's a prescriptive claim, as opposed to the descriptive claim that you have attributed to me; and it's about the ethics of relationships, not the nature of relationships. Love is irrational, sure, but the ethics of love should worked out rationally, don't you think? For example, if we disapprove of adultery (say), it should be because we know that it causes harm, and not because we feel that it is wrong, or for any other fluffy, non-rational sort off "reason
I'm not quite sure why you think they needed to take this into account. But leaving that aside, I don't think your claim is true. You may personally find the desire for equality of pay or the right to vote a turn off in potential partners, but I don't and I can't imagine that most men do. I can't imagine that a desirable woman could become any less desirable just by having certain political or philosophical opinions. Perhaps you could elaborate?
Surely it's for women to decide what they want. And surely a significant proportion of women must have wanted what the feminists wanted, otherwise feminism would never have happened.
What is it that you think most women want? Is it what they ought to want?
Quote:Assuming that you want your own and other people's beliefs to be as close to the truth as possible, there is always profit in subjecting your ideas and arguments to the scrutiny of other people, especially those who you completely disagree with. If you can't clearly explain your disagreement, there is reason to doubt that it is justified
I agree with this
Ethics and morality are products of the rational mind, thus have little use in matters that are largely controlled by our irrational selves.
I believe that all is fair in love, thus I am not a stickler for demanding that relationships be guided by an ethical code, though I am very ethical in my lower power relationships (work, neighbors and so on).
RE your example; we hurt the ones we love more than anyone else, it is who we are as humans. You seem to not know this, or at least wish to make this reality go away. Trying to make intimate relationships "safe" demands that they become lower power, and takes away much of their ability to force us to grow. Destruction and renewal is the natural order of life, humans and thus human relationships follow this law the same as all other life
That sounds logical, but I don't think it is. Religious faith, in my view, is irrational. Nevertheless, it makes perfect sense, in my view, to make ethical claims about it, such as the claim that it has bad consequences for humanity and that it is therefore bad that some people promote it as a virtue. If something is irrational, I'm sure it can't be explained in rational terms. But it can nevertheless be a topic of rational conversation.
"I am not the he went" is a meaningless sentence.
Nevertheless, the above sentence (underlined), is not meaningless. That's the sort of thing I'm getting at. Love is irrational, but rational claims about it are still meaningful and useful.
Why? What's the reason for behaving differently when it comes to your so-called 'lower power' relationships?
You need to be careful about assuming that this 'vibe' was in their heads and not yours. If you believe that feminists see you as oppressive, it might be easy to sense such vibes even when they are not there.
But even if all these feminists you've met were giving off that vibe, you need to be careful again when you make this generalisation about all feminists. I have never met a feminist that fits your description (and that's not because I've never met a feminist). How many have you met?
Feminists do not necessarily have a latent hostility towards men. It is possible to be a male feminist; I've heard J.S. Mill described as one of the early proponents of feminism. That should tell you something.
Specifically, it should tell you that feminism is about gender equality and women's rights. It is not, at its core, about the hatred or demonstration of men. Sure, some feminists probably do hate men, but then some Christians think it's okay to murder people - that doesn't mean that Christianity is a murder some religion (not that it doesn't have its other problems).
You haven't yet told me what these young women want, or how feminism prevents them getting it.
Men not only should refuse to give up any more power to women, but we should also reclaim some of what has been lost. Specifically in the areas of rape law...
I have just come upon this thread, and I am physically ill reading
hawkeye's postings.
I only can urge you to seek help, hawkeye. Anyone who promotes domination and rape they way you do, is a danger to all women and
society in general.
From your previous posts, I could see that you are a misogynist,
however, how deeply disturbed your mode of thoughts is, is even
surprising to me.
I have just come upon this thread, and I am physically ill reading
hawkeye's postings.
I only can urge you to seek help, hawkeye. Anyone who promotes domination and rape they way you do, is a danger to all women and
society in general.
From your previous posts, I could see that you are a misogynist,
however, how deeply disturbed your mode of thoughts is, is even
surprising to me.
I have just come upon this thread, and I am physically ill reading
hawkeye's postings.
Anyone who promotes domination and rape they way you do, is a danger to all women and
society in general.
With Rape law in America over the last 30 years the law has changed. Once the accuser needed to prove guilt of the alleged rapist, now the alleged rapist must prove his innocence. The law was once that the lack of consent needed to be proven, now consent needs to be proven. This is a huge swing of the hammer against men.
In family law for long while divorce has meant in almost all cases the father looses his kids. He may get some meaningful visitation rights, but that is all. America family court law has in the last few years evened the playing field a bit, but men still have far to go to maintain their rights as fathers after divorce.
hawkeye10 wrote:With Rape law in America over the last 30 years the law has changed. Once the accuser needed to prove guilt of the alleged rapist, now the alleged rapist must prove his innocence. The law was once that the lack of consent needed to be proven, now consent needs to be proven. This is a huge swing of the hammer against men.
In family law for long while divorce has meant in almost all cases the father looses his kids. He may get some meaningful visitation rights, but that is all. America family court law has in the last few years evened the playing field a bit, but men still have far to go to maintain their rights as fathers after divorce.
I would be fascinated to see your backing for the alleged reversal of the presumption of innocence in rape cases.
Do you contend that the law has changed, or are you simply reacting to some perceived change in the atmosphere of the courts?
NICK HENDERSON, STATE POLITICAL REPORTER
October 26, 2007 02:15am
A PERSON could be convicted of rape even if they had permission to have sex and were not told to stop, under tough laws proposed by the State Government.
A consultation process on rape law reform in South Australia has led to further changes to a proposed Bill which would significantly strengthen sexual assault laws.
Attorney-General Michael Atkinson said the Government would make it an offence to continue a sexual act with another person after receiving consent if they changed their mind.
"If consent is given to begin with, then the alleged victim decides she doesn't want to go on with a particular sexual activity or to engage in another type of sexual activity, obviously she will have to communicate that to the alleged offender," he said.
The Government has more clearly defined consent in the proposed laws and Mr Atkinson said a person would not need to tell an alleged offender to stop if they decided not to continue engaging in sexual activity.
"I think a scream would be sufficient," Mr Atkinson said.
"We don't want to punish men for being inadvertent or negligent but we do want to punish them for reckless indifference to whether a woman was consenting to their sexual advances," he said.
Defence lawyer and SA Council of Civil Liberties president George Mancini said it could take more than five years to determine whether the laws were effective.
He said many of the new laws were already enforced in the courts and claimed much of the legislation was "unnecessary".
Rape-Law Reform circa June 2002
Has the Pendulum Swung Too Far?
STEPHEN SCHULHOFER
Robert B. McKay Professor of Law, New York University Law School, New York, New York 10012, USA
Address for correspondence: Stephen Schulhofer, Robert B. McKay, Professor of Law, New York University Law School, 40 Washington Square South, New York, NY 10012. Voice: 212-998-6260; fax: 212-995-4692.
[email protected]
Ann. N.Y. Acad. Sci. 989: 276-287 (2003).
This paper reviews court decisions determining the scope of liability for rape over the period 1998-2002. It finds many troubling signs that some courts, under some circumstances, are still wedded to the traditional (very strict) view of the kind of force necessary to support a charge of rape. There are, however, signs of encouraging progress: convictions in circumstances where even a decision to prosecute would have been unthinkable 20 years ago, and holdings that accept power, authority, or indirect intimidation as sufficient "force." Is it possible to go too far in this direction? And is there any reason to worry that this could actually happen in reality? The research identifies several areas in which this surprising possibility may be about to materialize, for example on the normatively and practically difficult question of the degree of intoxication or alcohol-induced willingness sufficient to invalidate consent.
dlowan wrote:hawkeye10 wrote:With Rape law in America over the last 30 years the law has changed. Once the accuser needed to prove guilt of the alleged rapist, now the alleged rapist must prove his innocence. The law was once that the lack of consent needed to be proven, now consent needs to be proven. This is a huge swing of the hammer against men.
In family law for long while divorce has meant in almost all cases the father looses his kids. He may get some meaningful visitation rights, but that is all. America family court law has in the last few years evened the playing field a bit, but men still have far to go to maintain their rights as fathers after divorce.
I would be fascinated to see your backing for the alleged reversal of the presumption of innocence in rape cases.
Do you contend that the law has changed, or are you simply reacting to some perceived change in the atmosphere of the courts?
given that you are austrailian let's look at this eample:
Quote:http://www.news.com.au/adelaidenow/story/0,22606,22646852-5006301,00.html?from=mostpopNICK HENDERSON, STATE POLITICAL REPORTER
October 26, 2007 02:15am
A PERSON could be convicted of rape even if they had permission to have sex and were not told to stop, under tough laws proposed by the State Government.
A consultation process on rape law reform in South Australia has led to further changes to a proposed Bill which would significantly strengthen sexual assault laws.
Attorney-General Michael Atkinson said the Government would make it an offence to continue a sexual act with another person after receiving consent if they changed their mind.
"If consent is given to begin with, then the alleged victim decides she doesn't want to go on with a particular sexual activity or to engage in another type of sexual activity, obviously she will have to communicate that to the alleged offender," he said.
The Government has more clearly defined consent in the proposed laws and Mr Atkinson said a person would not need to tell an alleged offender to stop if they decided not to continue engaging in sexual activity.
"I think a scream would be sufficient," Mr Atkinson said.
"We don't want to punish men for being inadvertent or negligent but we do want to punish them for reckless indifference to whether a woman was consenting to their sexual advances," he said.
Defence lawyer and SA Council of Civil Liberties president George Mancini said it could take more than five years to determine whether the laws were effective.
He said many of the new laws were already enforced in the courts and claimed much of the legislation was "unnecessary".
But over all the laws have changed, the default was the presumption of consent, today in almost all courts the default is the presumption of lack of consent. The accused now must prove that consent was given. Given the hazy nature of sexual consent between normally sexual humans this a big change. For those who practice abnormal sexuality the swing in presumption is even more of a slam against men.