Vitamin tablets or something else??!!

By the way...she gets very upset and doesn't want to talk about it if you mention it and ask if they have healed. She has been using cream to help heal them.

helen, your parents abandoned you as a child and fabricated this story.


Bless you, child.

Be strong.

Speak more of the cream.

That doesn't help I'm afraid this is a real problem and if you look at my previous posts today you will see that my mother has also disappeared!!!!!! and we don't know where she is!!!

Thanks

Oh.


Too bad.


Hahahahahahahahahahhahahaha

Helen, let me explain something: There is a guy on this site, by the name of kickycan, and he has control of my character.

I did not type this response, nor the previous one --- kickycan did!

Why he must torture me so is beyond me, but I have learned to accept it.

I hate him so.

And, Helen, forgive me for saying this, but..... I think I am falling in love with you.

Take me, Helen. Ravage me.

Gus--

S&M is just jim-dandy between Consenting Adults. You aren't a real adult. Bug out.

Helen--

Your mother seems to have been playing some dangerous games. "Urine splashes" don't burn the skin in neat little circles. Furthermore, chewing a vitamin pill wouldn't increase the acidity of a vitamin pill.

Exactly where on her backside are these marks? Low down? High up? Would they have been uncomfortable to sit on? Could they have been burns?

Be sure you mention this to the police. Sometimes playful housewives get involved with kinky, unpleasant men who play rough games.

Jeez
My thoughts exactly..............are there any other responses.

She said they were sore, so I presume that might mean they were sore to sit on.

I agree with Noddy that it's not vitamins. Only a medical person could tell you if they were burns and what caused them. I'm not sure what the police can do, your mother is a grown-up. She can come and go as she pleases, and if she consents, she is allowed to have a kinky affair (not that your father would agree to the scenario). Does your mother have any history of mental illness that might be a factor?

Could your mom be injecting drugs? Vitamins? Something?

http://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/464467_3

You know for a long time now I've been thinking that my mother has a mental illness, i'd say for years. My dad loves her and doesn't see it like I do. When I come back to visit it hits you in the face. I'm hoping after the divorce and space from her he'll realise and strike a balance. He'll understand all the arguments were wrong and too horrible. There have been times when I can only describe the things she has accused us of as crazy.
It's terrible to say, but I'm glad it's over. No more rows!!! It's just now it seems I don't know my mum at all. She isn't the person i thought she was. Her behaviour has been odd at times.

Your father is getting a divorce from your mother?

Yes that's right

Helen--

What a mess.

Remember, you're a daughter--not a marriage counselor or a divorce counselor.

Perhaps you should suggest that your dad be tested for STD's. Your mother may have been attending some complicated social gatherings.

What a mess.

I'm beginning to feel sorry for your mother in that she may be showing (also may not be) some quite disturbed behavior. She may be reluctant to see a doctor or seek counsel, and, she is after all a grown up. I don't know what to suggest except that my first thought is not to be particularly accusatory but to suggest she may need counselling help in dealing with the changes.

Not sure I'm right, re not being accusing, re the red circles. Or even if I'm right re what I think they probably mean.

I can easily understand your hurt, Helen, and your father's. Am not sure she is thinking clearly about that, though.

You're right. I'm not sure we'll ever know.

The red marks keep playing on my mind. Will I ever know about those. Everyone keeps saying vitamins don't cause that yet until I know for sure I just can't believe it of my mother. It makes me feel angry/sad loads of stuff, plus the fact I can't talk to her. God knows what she is saying about us too if her mental state isn't clear.

I've been trying to convince my dad that she is psychologically disturbed for years but he just doesn't see it. I knew there would probably be one point where all the troubles and terrible terrible arguments between my parents had to end. I don't want to sound bad but in some respects it's a relief as she would never see a doctor and it was sending me mad etc. She would accuse us of lots of small petty things. Always the victim, you could never win with her. She's given me lots of advice about my ex as he was quite abusive and then she goes off and does this, lord knows doing what with him too, lieing etc and was quite abusive too. It feels like everyone I've been close to has some psychological issue. I just don't want it to destroy me and my life. Peace would be great!! Kids, loving husband and a home would be wonderful.
Is that too much to ask??
Things surely can only get better!!!