ossobuco wrote:
Do you all mean a son should never challenge a father, as they are actually talking best they can, or are you all still irate about Ogionik's patently obnoxious thread about, at the least, bitches?
For me personally the answer to this is NO.
I am not writing in this thread with the ' down bitch' comment in my head.
I am witting here because we do not know the entire context of the conversation he had with his father .
As I said before, those tears or frustrated feelings, or silence, or what ever his father reacted with could be from a number of things.
he could be upset that he is even having that kind of conversation with his son.
He could be embarrassed at the content of the conversation.
He could have been frustrated that he could not end a conversation he may have realized he did not want to start.
Understand OGIONIK and others, that I am not christian. So my following statement is not meant in any defense, or even OFFENSE to the religion..
Nor do I mean it to be rude to anyone..
But I think it is sort of arrogant to assume one ( This means ANYONE) can 'destroy' someones belief system.
It takes many years, and as someone else said, many questions to change your religious beliefs.
I was raised christian.. southern baptist to be exact.
10 years later, nothing of christianity rings as true to me anymore. I can not believe that folks buy it anymore . But that is just my opinion.
But to think that one conversation destroys someones life foundation, is just.. TOO MUCH.
You can begin to plant seeds of question in someones head.
Doing that is hurtful. There is no reason to change someones religion.
Even if they are doing unethical things in the 'name of this religion' , it is not up to another person to try to change their beliefs.. but you can effect their actions.
Im rambling now.. but I think I made my point.. somewhere..