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I had a fight at the grocery store (doesn’t everyone?)

 
 
Miller
 
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Reply Tue 12 Feb, 2008 12:51 pm
Linkat wrote:
Eva wrote:
You say it was an older lady? I probably wouldn't have felt threatened. I would have just announced, "EXCUSE ME! Let me move this out of your way," then I'd have moved the cart myself. I wouldn't have wanted to alarm my child.


She had already moved it - when I turned I saw her just finishing pushing it. The look of terror on my daughter's face set me off on top of thought of some one touching my child. My child was alarmed before I even said a word.

She told me after "Mommy I was so scared when that lady pushed me."


Did your little child then scream help, when the stranger started to move the cart, or did she remain quiet, while being abducted?
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Linkat
 
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Reply Wed 13 Feb, 2008 12:05 pm
Re: I had a fight at the grocery store (doesn't everyone?)
Miller wrote:
Linkat wrote:


I walk up to this intruder and push her down screaming what the f*ck is wrong with you -

What would you have done to this person?


Are you saying that you assaulted this person?

Did she call the police about your attack on her person?


If you read the entire thread you would notice I said - no I didn't - it was a joke about knocking this person down. Do you also believe in Bonsai Kitties?
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Linkat
 
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Reply Wed 13 Feb, 2008 12:13 pm
Miller wrote:
Linkat wrote:
Eva wrote:
You say it was an older lady? I probably wouldn't have felt threatened. I would have just announced, "EXCUSE ME! Let me move this out of your way," then I'd have moved the cart myself. I wouldn't have wanted to alarm my child.


She had already moved it - when I turned I saw her just finishing pushing it. The look of terror on my daughter's face set me off on top of thought of some one touching my child. My child was alarmed before I even said a word.

She told me after "Mommy I was so scared when that lady pushed me."


Did your little child then scream help, when the stranger started to move the cart, or did she remain quiet, while being abducted?


If you know anything about young children - when they are so frighten they freeze and don't say a thing -just have this look of horror on their face. That is what my child did and why I explained to her if something were ever to happen to you again, to please scream bloody murder.

I did not hit or touch this woman in any way - just explained (granted in an angry voice) that you do not touch some one else's child. I think that is reasonable seeing parents explain to their children not to speak or anything with a stranger. This person was a stranger so logically my child was frightened. Even with me realizing there was no danger, I was angry that my child was so frighten unneccessarily - simply because some one was too inpatient to wait a minute. It wasn't like I left the carriage for more than the minute it took to bag a couple of pieces of broccoli - and I could not reasonably leave my hand on the carriage, get some broccoli and bag it. The carriage was within reaching distance of me, my back was turned slightly and I was looking at the bag so as not to drop the broccoli on the ground. It should have been apparent that I was the parent of the child and as I explained to her she should have simply asked me to move the carriage out of her way.
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cjhsa
 
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Reply Wed 13 Feb, 2008 01:32 pm
From now on when I go to the grocery store with my kids the first thing I'm doing is putting a coconut in one of the reusable burlap bags we have. Laughing
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Linkat
 
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Reply Wed 13 Feb, 2008 04:27 pm
cjhsa wrote:
From now on when I go to the grocery store with my kids the first thing I'm doing is putting a coconut in one of the reusable burlap bags we have. Laughing


Great idea - I'll be prepared as well.
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Green Witch
 
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Reply Wed 13 Feb, 2008 04:47 pm
cjhsa wrote:
From now on when I go to the grocery store with my kids the first thing I'm doing is putting a coconut in one of the reusable burlap bags we have. Laughing


HA! I always knew you were a closet environmentalist !
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cjhsa
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 06:51 am
You mean conservationist. Big difference. Plus, burlap bags are multitasking, as noted above. Survivalist instinct.....
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Green Witch
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 07:33 am
cjhsa wrote:
You mean conservationist. .....


OK with me.
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Dorothy Parker
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 08:10 am
Bloody hell Linkat.

You know, people just wont wait even a few seconds for anybody to move out of their way in the supermarket will they (or on the roads either) and this kind of behavior is indicative of that.

However I don't think I would have laid my hands on this person!

Laughing

Perhaps I would've just had a stern word with her but who knows. The supermarket can bring out strange behavior in everybody.

My mother had her bottom smacked and was told "naughty naughty" by an elderley lady once (complete stranger) when she was looking at the cream cakes!!!
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cjhsa
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 08:43 am
Oooh, cream cakes make me sooooooooo horny......
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Linkat
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 11:51 am
Dorothy Parker wrote:
Bloody hell Linkat.

You know, people just wont wait even a few seconds for anybody to move out of their way in the supermarket will they (or on the roads either) and this kind of behavior is indicative of that.

However I don't think I would have laid my hands on this person!

Laughing

Perhaps I would've just had a stern word with her but who knows. The supermarket can bring out strange behavior in everybody.

My mother had her bottom smacked and was told "naughty naughty" by an elderley lady once (complete stranger) when she was looking at the cream cakes!!!


I didn't lay my hands on her. I only spoke to her.
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Dorothy Parker
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 03:47 pm
Yes I realise that now.

Embarrassed

Please don't hit me.
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Linkat
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 04:13 pm
Dorothy Parker wrote:
Yes I realise that now.

Embarrassed

Please don't hit me.


I am calm now - I'll only throw a coconut at you in a burlap bag.

(it's just that everyone keeps saying I keep the woman - I did say immediately after that - no I didn't - I was trying to make light of the situation by showing an extreme reaction)
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 04:17 pm
But I hit her, some posts later, with brussel sprouts...
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snood
 
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Reply Thu 14 Feb, 2008 05:00 pm
kickycan wrote:
Whenever I see a baby/kid in a cart blocking something I need, I just yell to everyone in the general area, "Hey, selfish f*ck, move your goddammed brat so I can get some f*cking acorn squash!"

I never touch the cart though. I'm sensitive like that.



That was a good one, kickycan.
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Linkat
 
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Reply Fri 15 Feb, 2008 11:53 am
ossobuco wrote:
But I hit her, some posts later, with brussel sprouts...


That wasn't me.
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OGIONIK
 
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Reply Wed 20 Feb, 2008 07:42 pm
Re: I had a fight at the grocery store (doesn't everyone?)
Linkat wrote:
So here I am - a mild manner petite mom pushing her little pre-schooler in the grocery cart in the produce department. I "park" the cart aside so as not to block other shoppers. I step a few feet away to collect some fresh produce. After I gather the produce, I look up in alarm as this older woman starts to push the carriage with my little girl in it. My daughter has a look of terror on her face.

I walk up to this intruder and push her down screaming what the f*ck is wrong with you - don't you dare touch my child! I guess the protective mom got the better of me.

Well not really, but I did sort of yell at her. Then I calmed a bit and said, "You never push a carriage with some one else's child in it. If you wanted to get at something all you had to do was ask me to move the carriage." She pretty much wouldn't look at me - possibly frightened her half to death. I think she got the hint though. I told my daughter if it ever happened again to scream her bloody head off at the person.

What would you have done to this person?


thats hot.
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Wed 20 Feb, 2008 08:06 pm
Linkat wrote:
ossobuco wrote:
But I hit her, some posts later, with brussel sprouts...


That wasn't me.


No, it was ME!
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Mame
 
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Reply Thu 21 Feb, 2008 12:27 pm
osso, brussel sprouts don't do much damage... you should try a head of cabbage - one oughtta do it.
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shewolfnm
 
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Reply Thu 21 Feb, 2008 07:11 pm
(shakes head)

White people Rolling Eyes


Throw a god damn watermelon already will ya?


cabbage.. sheeeeeeeeesh
What are you trying to do? Play volley ball?
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