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Anyone Have Experience With a Life Coach?

 
 
Reply Fri 25 Jan, 2008 06:20 pm
Anyone ever had a life coach? What was your experience as far as their ability to help you achieve your goals? Put things in perspective? Motivate? Guide?

Up sides?

Down sides?

Worth the money?
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ossobuco
 
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Reply Fri 25 Jan, 2008 09:52 pm
No.... (bump)
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CalamityJane
 
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Reply Fri 25 Jan, 2008 11:06 pm
No I haven't either. If you do, squinney, be careful. Wikipedia said this:

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Since there is no official regulatory standard for life coaching and no governed education or training standard for the life coaching industry, anyone can call themselves a coach and take on clients.
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 05:55 am
Obviously, a great deal depends on just who this Life Coach is.

Essentially you're hiring a Licensed Nag and some people are simply not talented in repetitive motivation.
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squinney
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 06:32 am
This is someone I know from the neighborhood. He's also a family court mediator and has donated time as a child advocate. He has a law degree and a degree in Psychology.

His focus tends to be towards assisting / motivating in business, not personal stuff, although obviously there would be some bleed over. He helps people take a concept or idea they have and walk them through making it happen. If you have no idea what you want to do, he helps you find the path that will be most satisfying for you.

As a constant entrepeneur, I was considering asking for his assistance in getting off my ass and doing something with a current idea. I've been playing with it for months and just can't seem to get it going. Re: nagging/ direction done right is just what I need. (Along with some confidence)

I know Life Coaches don't at this time have a lot of oversight by a Board or state agency, but I think that will change as they become more in demand.
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mushypancakes
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 07:16 am
No, I haven't.

However, I've wondered a long time what line of work you could be in Squinney.
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older
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 08:03 am
My Wife and I have a very good friend that has hired a life coach. I would say the only downside is the initial cost but the results were quite good. However I'd say the results really depend on the relationship between the coach / client and I'm sure the results can vary widely.
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DrewDad
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 10:06 am
Isn't this what spouses are for? Maybe you need to start dating....
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Slappy Doo Hoo
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 10:45 am
Also look into seminars from established people.

And sometimes just reading the right book helps get you off your ass. I want to look into audio books too, but I like music too much while in the car.
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squinney
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 12:44 pm
Mushy - I'm the Director of Activities for a planned community of about 1550 homes (1827 when buildout is complete). I run the community clubhouse. I plan and implement regular activites that take place in the clubhouse such as Bridge, Wine Club, Toddler Time, Kids Night, Dance Class, Yoga, Chess Club, etc. I arrange for the community to meet their school board rep, city councilman, new chief of police, etc. I arrange for classes to be offered on such things as Spanish, CPR, and cooking. I interface with law enforcement... meaning I'm the agent/rep for the community if something happens 24/7. I plan and execute at least one big party each month such as New Years Eve, Mardi Gras, Casino Night, Pool Opening and Closing, etc. Many of the monthly parties are tied to charities so I also deliver food collected to the Food Bank, pick up luminaries for Ronald McDonald House, handle donations and paperwork for Make-A-Wish, manage donations for Toys for Tots, etc. I provide Concerts 4 to 6 times per year on the greenway for the residents that also usually include some kind of activities to keep the kids busy. I serve Hot Cocoa at Halloween and Pancakes at Christmas to over 600 residents. I write the bi-monthly full color newsletter. I handle rentals of the clubhouse, minor repairs, air filter changes, building of bookshelves for the Book Exchange program, stocking of supplies including office, bathrooms and kitchen and clean - constantly. I pass out hugs, and serve as counselor and medic as needed.

I'm rare, but more of these communities are being built.

Drewdad - Who has time for dating???
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mushypancakes
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 03:24 pm
Ohhhh!!! Thanks, Squinney.

I let out a little squeal of delight and excitement reading that. Is that wrong? lol

No wonder! What an awesome job! And that so fits with all that qualities that I see in you from reading your posts here. Yeah, sort of a bit of an adoration but my face is red even writing that.

I'm no help here. I'm not at that level of achievement - so I have no clue how to help you to the next phase of it all.

Wish you complete success though, and am excited to see what you choose next!

Good, good work. People like you are such a treasure.
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ehBeth
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 03:28 pm
squinney wrote:
I'm rare


well, of course you are. we always knew that.

in effect, you're a life coach for a whole community.
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dlowan
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 07:54 pm
squinney wrote:
Mushy - I'm the Director of Activities for a planned community of about 1550 homes (1827 when buildout is complete). I run the community clubhouse. I plan and implement regular activites that take place in the clubhouse such as Bridge, Wine Club, Toddler Time, Kids Night, Dance Class, Yoga, Chess Club, etc. I arrange for the community to meet their school board rep, city councilman, new chief of police, etc. I arrange for classes to be offered on such things as Spanish, CPR, and cooking. I interface with law enforcement... meaning I'm the agent/rep for the community if something happens 24/7. I plan and execute at least one big party each month such as New Years Eve, Mardi Gras, Casino Night, Pool Opening and Closing, etc. Many of the monthly parties are tied to charities so I also deliver food collected to the Food Bank, pick up luminaries for Ronald McDonald House, handle donations and paperwork for Make-A-Wish, manage donations for Toys for Tots, etc. I provide Concerts 4 to 6 times per year on the greenway for the residents that also usually include some kind of activities to keep the kids busy. I serve Hot Cocoa at Halloween and Pancakes at Christmas to over 600 residents. I write the bi-monthly full color newsletter. I handle rentals of the clubhouse, minor repairs, air filter changes, building of bookshelves for the Book Exchange program, stocking of supplies including office, bathrooms and kitchen and clean - constantly. I pass out hugs, and serve as counselor and medic as needed.

I'm rare, but more of these communities are being built.

Drewdad - Who has time for dating???


Er...what's a "planned community"?


I assumed it meant retirement, but there seem to be many children.....
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squinney
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 10:08 pm
Many retirement communities have activities directors, but that's more along the lines of doing activities with the residents to keep them active . Simple exercise classes, bridge, crochet, watercolors, that kind of thing.

A Planned Community is a subdivision that is almost it's own little town. There are townhomes, condo's, single family bungalows, two story mid size homes, all the way up to estate homes. There is usually a clubhouse / pool / tennis, and a commercial center. It brings back the sidewalks, parks and greenways reminescent of small town America where people actually get out and walk and ride their bikes.

Due to the variety of homes offered, it isn't unusual for a daughter and her family to move in, be visited by parents, they like the community and buy a condo. The brother visits and decides to move his family to be closer to grandma and grandpa... We have a couple dozen extended families in the neighborhood.

Most planned communities have a "theme" of sorts. There is one not too far away set around a scenic lake, one a little north that is going up that has homes that incorporate "green" technology, one downtown that is a little more urban. Mine is based on It's a Wonderful Life.

Yeah, Mushy. It really is my dream job. Many times I'm seeing that they are hiring based on a sports education and they end up with someone that schedules tennis lessons and plans basketball tournaments, but not much else. It really takes more of an entrepeneur / events planner / creative person that can write, sing, dance, stand on their head... Okay, well maybe not the last part. Very Happy
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squinney
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 10:16 pm
ehBeth wrote:
squinney wrote:
I'm rare


well, of course you are. we always knew that.

in effect, you're a life coach for a whole community.


I hadn't thought of it that way.

Cool
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gustavratzenhofer
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 10:29 pm
I have just decided, after reading this thread, to quit my day job and become a life coach.

I believe that is my calling.
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NickFun
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 10:32 pm
If you can afford a life coach, you don't NEED a life coach.
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squinney
 
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Reply Sat 26 Jan, 2008 10:40 pm
Embarrassed

Oh. Maybe I can just ask him for the free thirty minute consult.
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squinney
 
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Reply Tue 29 Jan, 2008 07:55 pm
Okay, he's gonna work with me. Talked by phone for thirty minutes and will meet with him Friday to start. If all goes well, I may see about having him meet with Cub to help get him motivated and moving on his "dream."

Will keep you posted on what happens.

(Picturing Gus as a Coach: "Now, ya see, ya start with a capabarra and you add one more and then Poof! You're in bidness. Same thing goes with sheep, but they don't hold still so well. That's how ya do it. Got it?Now pay me.")
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Noddy24
 
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Reply Wed 30 Jan, 2008 02:09 pm
Squinney--

Good luck. I hope he talks all about you and your dreams and gives you a gentle shove.
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