To get an idea of how strongly Elizabeth herself feels about the campaign continuing, and just how angry she can get at people suggesting that they should just home now that her cancer has returned, check out this:
Elizabeth Edwards and the Mommy Wars
(I actually like the title of another article on the same subject better: "Elizabeth Edwards Vs. Nosey, Opinionated, Busy-Body Mothers" :wink: )
The story: a poster on a Silicon Valley moms blog, last year, went on for quite a bit about how the Edwardses were bad parents for continuing with John's campaign now her cancer had returned - they should be at home, with the children, spending quality time now that they still could! "Take your kids home. Get off the campaign trail. [..] you are forcing your young children, who should be in school to ride in buses and talk to the press when they obviously don't want to. [..] They deserve some peace, not time with nannies and campaign-trail daycare providers [..]. give your children some actual QUALITY time with you, which they are not having on the bus or in senatorial-aide-nannycare."
Elizabeth came across it, and herself logged in to respond - dignified but forcefully:
"With all due respect, what you would choose to do is relevant only once: when you choose how to spend your remaining days. I made my choice; because of our lives it was a public choice, but the choice doesn't belong to the public, it belongs to me. And with all due respect, you have no idea what the quality or amount of the time I spend with my children is. [..]
I want to be entirely clear. You don't get to say I am a terrible mother because you think you wouldn't make my choices in my situation. You don't get to say that my children don't want to be with us when you don't know them [..]. You don't get to judge me because you think you know exactly what you would do if you had my disease. I want to be really clear: you don't know. And if the sun always shines on you -- and I pray it does -- you will never know."
My bet is that if Edwards gets out of the race - after today, or after Feb 5 - it'll be
despite Elizabeth, not because of her.