We spent another wonderful night together, he lives an hour and a half drive from me. We had planned to make appearances at a couple of my old hangouts. Halloween is a big day in San Francisco and I am getting a lot of mileage out of my Dominatrix "outfit"
He, of course, has a very responsible job, and called me to say that he had a long and exhausting day (12 hours) and to ask if it was OK just to spend a quiet evening and morning at his place. I said that was fine so he drove all the way up to pick me up and take me back which, I think, says something that he would do that when he was so exhausted. So we got back and got comfortable and, not to get into details, but he is pretty amazing for a 50 year old guy. So he wakes me up around 8:30 am, he is ready go again, (guys love sex in the am) then his radio goes off and he has to be at a jobsite at 11 am. So we barely have time to get dressed and take me home, etc. I said a quickiewould be OK, he said "Well, hon, we don't even have time for that." So we kissed and then, of course, a few seconds later, we were locked in love. Of course, it was a quickie but he promises to make it up to me this weekend.
We hurriedly got dressed and he took me back to San Francisco. At this point, I am beginning to feel a little bit secure in the relationship BUT if it lasts through the weekend or even has a change of heart and we never see one another again, I am OK with that, though I would certainly prefer that the relationship progresses. OTOH there are an awful lot of guys out there who would die to get me where he has got me, so it is a win-win situation for me as long as I stay centered and just take one day at a time. Though we haven't committed to "going steady" like we used to say back in high school, it seems, in effect, that is what we were doing, at least for now. I forgot what he said exactly but from what I can gather, he hasn't been in a relationship for awhile. His job demands so much of him, I doubt whether he has much time to chase after women and then "service" them three or four times a week unless he is Superman
I have a couple of open coffee, lunch and dinner invitations, it might be healthy to see other men with the firm resolve not to hop in the sack with them. Anyway, it is win-win for me.