okay, i misunderstood the jw position on trinity. i've been reading the watchtower site, and they take issue with it being nonbiblical (i disagree) or pagan (i agree.)
they also take issue with this:
so the trinity could only be okay from a jw standpoint if: 1. it wasn't pagan 2. god and jesus were *not* equal and 3. it was biblical.
for three, there's nothing we can do to agree on this.
for one, it's shouldn't matter whether it's pagan, pagans worshipped, that doesn't stop christians for worshipping, pagans had a god concept, that doesn't stop christians from having a god concept, they prayed, that doesn't stop christians from praying, and so on. not everything pagan goes against christianity.
but just because something is a unit doesn't mean that all parts are equal. jesus doesn't have to be equal to god to be part of a trinity. a family of three is a trinity, that doesn't imply the child is equal to the father. but a family is one. it may seem like a horribly pagan concept, but the idea that there was a father and a son makes the trinity seem very biblical to me after all. of course jw's do not agree.
still, the idea of attacking the trinity as evil and shameful (to the point of implying that someone is a "closeted" believer) seems very immature.