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Sun 12 Aug, 2007 01:26 am
I've been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and 2 days
after my birthday he tells me that he doesn't feel comfortable
living with me and my family. That he wants to move in a
house but that I move in with him. I told him that I couldn't
because I'm a minor but so is he. I mean I took him to work
and I even picked up because he doesn't have a car and when
I had money and he needed something I bought it for him
and when he got in a car wreck he had stitches put on and
he couldn't go work or anything I took care of him and the
doctors told me that he needed someone to help him take a
shower I did it. He moved in with me because his parents
left him and his sister doesn't want him to live with her. so
he has a drinking problem to not think of all the bad stuff
that is happening to him. so he left me and he told me that
he still loves me but he just cant stay with me at my house
anymore does this mean he's cheating on me and that he
doesn't want me to know about it.
Rosaura, I am a man now but I used to be exactly like your boyfriend. He is lost and self-destructive and he most likely does not care about anything except beer and sex. He will consume everything and anyone he can to fill the void in his life.
In a fairytail you could save him but in real life he will go from girl to girl for more sex, more beer and more parties and destruction. You might be what they call a co-dependant.
Don't get played. don't become a statistic and don't get pregnant. Stay home and learn how life realy works. There are all kinds of guys out there waiting for you.
Remember that word Co-dependent . A man does not let a woman do all these things for him. He trys as hard as he can to do what he can for her not make her a slave. Who the f$#k needs that.
Rosaura--
This guy doesn't get along with his parents...or his sister...or your parents.
He "loves" you--and he loves his bottle and he wants to move to his own place and take you and the bottle with him for comfort.
Sure he "loves" you and all the things you do for him.
What does he do for you?
When someone has a drinking problem, it affects all the people who are close to him. It sounds like you have become a part of his drinking problem.
I highly recommend you get help, and this is an organization that can give you support with this problem.
http://www.al-anon.org/
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