I'm with mj on this.

I think some of your (anyone, not mj specifically) perception of the news is colored by your personal point of view, but beyond that I think it depends on the story, the source, the writer... Some news is fluff and crafted so as to not make waves. Other stories definitely upset someone's applecart, and while you might want that applecart blown to tiny pieces, that doesn't mean the story was designed to be "soft" and easy to digest.
I think any one of us could find examples of both "soft" and "hard" journalism just looking at today's headlines. I don't think our media are perfect, but neither do I think that they are universally flawed. Like most things in life, the news is a mixed bag. You have to sort through to find the stuff you need, want or like.
I will add that I think that growing access to international news sources is a positive "pusher" on US media. They will find it increasingly hard to present a skewed version of events (in those cases where they might wish to do so) as more and more people have access to news sources from outside our borders.