@Dime4,
Why not move on?
It seems like she may still like/love you, but not be in love with you.
Maybe let her know that you're no longer interested in an exclusive relationship - have a discussion about that. If she doesn't want to go that route, find out how she sees an exclusive relationship working for both of you.
Don't assume you know how she sees the ground rules of an exclusive relationship. For many people, that means that both partners will continue to have important friendships with people of both genders.