is she interested in me i am confused

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me and this girl were set in the same group for labs. I noticed that when she talks to me , she doesn't make eye contact. she looks in the ground. I caught her staring at me two times. and when look at her she looks down she makes full eye contact with other guys but not with me . we haven't really talked. one day she came in to me and my friends to ask for a mobile charger. it could be that she genuinely needed a charger or she wanted to talk to me .I added her in Facebook and she accepted after 3 hours. I sent her a hi then she suddenly vanished. the next day i sent her a message and I asked her out for a movie a dinner. I asked her what do you think she didn't reply for 2 hours then I got this from her

"Yeah certainly I dont mind
just inform me "
then after one minute she sends this
"sorry that message is not supposed to be for you"
then after 2 minutes she says
sorry no

Just like she did I pretended that sent her the message by mistake and this what I sent

"Hey man I like this girl but she doesn't want to show her true emotions and i dont know what to do
sorry that message is not supposed to be for you
and regarding Friday thats fine no need to be sorry"

she saw the message and no reply.
I then send her a message saying if you play hard to get I will play harder to get

then she sent me excuse me?

I then told her that I have the right to show my emotions and you have the right to deny them or accept them. I told her how her answer was really weird.

she sent me that it was her mistake for giving me such an answer and she is serious when she said that it was by mistake. she said that she is not playing hard to get and she rejected.

I played it cool and I said " thats perfect" and I sent her a thumbs up she sent me a thumbs up

the next day I was sitting in uni an I saw her with her friends coming towards me. her head was down and I can see that on of her friends was looking at me.

I ignored her for 2 weeks. yesterday i was standing in the hall. although that there are space she walked really really close to me and bumped against me ( she lightly touched me 100 % sure

I sent her a photo 2 days later it basically says the new book " how to understand women " is finally available in the market and it shows a guy reading a very large book. it implies that women are hard to read. she unfriended me ( not block i can still see her profile) and after 5 hours I saw that she looked at the photo ( it shows seen) then after 2 hours she marked it as unread time stamp disappeared

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@justinunola,

Yes, you are confused.

If she was ever interested, she isn't now.

Move on.

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@justinunola,

What if she feels comfortable with other guys and so makes eye-contact and does not feel comfortable with you so doesn't.

I think you push way to fast and then get defensive and clingy even I found none of your actions funny wanting me to go back for more, nor interesting wanting me to go out with you, I did find you pushed immediately for a date just because she friended you, slow down.

Joke, add something nice about a woman into messages "first"...

You asked her for a date, you then sent her a book on women, where did you hold conversations about her life, her dreams, her goals, where did you make her laugh, where did you compliment her.

You just went straight in for the "date" and then kinda became demanding over it.

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@FOUND SOUL,

thank you for your reply. how to rectify this ignore her will she ever come again and why didnt she block me

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@justinunola,

those are some whack tags on this thread

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@ehBeth,

Confused?

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@justinunola,

Perhaps she's a "nice person" not a witch, as to why she didn't block you.

Obsessive also now comes to mind.

What do you think of yourself?

If she "liked" you for your style of approach she would have accepted a date even though I've stated in my opinion your approach didn't suit me and perhaps quite a few girls.

She didn't. So move on.

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@FOUND SOUL,

then why bumping into me later , get my attention it cant be accidental

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@justinunola,

The entire universe is accidental.

Stop being stupid.
She does not want to date you.
Period.
Full Stop.

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@justinunola,

"I then send her a message saying if you play hard to get I will play harder to get
then she sent me excuse me?"

You are gaming.

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Maybe you push her too much. Maybe you should wait until she show's her emotions and how really she feels for you.

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@justinunola,

After 'hard to get' message I would not just block you - I would come over and slap your face.
You are immature, obnoxious and desperate ass.
Leave her alone. And wait if she will crawl back to you. And if she will -
you deserve each other!

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Oh god - does the entire world under 30 have relationships by TEXT???

Be a BIG BOY and actually TALK to her - face to face.

Your "jokes" don't come off right when using text. Instead of teasing, they come off as insolent and condescending.

Be REAL; Be face to face when starting up a relationship.

Start all over with her - or move on to a gal who can look you in the eye.

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@PUNKEY,

Jokes by text does come out right when you know and feel person who is on the other end...which this isn't the case.

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@justinunola,

justinunola wrote:

me and this girl were set in the same group for labs.

I think this is the only bit anyone is interested in.

So what were they like, left, right or middle?

http://images.champdogs.net/breeds/labrador-retriever.jpg

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@izzythepush,

WOOF WOOF!

http://www.modernbritishgent.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/06/a490e7a6211e4f413d787ea63f44cebc.jpg

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@Lordyaswas,

ARF ARF!

http://budapeststudent.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/stephen-fry-blackadder.jpg

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@izzythepush,

is this your family ??

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