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After 6 months of passion, friendship, and romance is it over???

 
 
Beans
 
Reply Wed 22 Aug, 2012 11:47 am
My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months (we didn't know one another before)...Our relationship has been filled with nothing but love, passion and romance (one of the healthiest relationships i've been in). I truly feel as if I could spend the rest of my life with him. I've told him that I love him and he has yet to say it back. But, I feel that he feels the same way and I honestly can say I can see it through his actions.
However, we both work and he is the CEO of his company which adds some pressure to his life at certain times. Lately I feel that our crazy passionate relationship is losing its spark....I understand that this is okay after the fact that we spend every free moment together, but it's scary bc we both really don't know how to respond to it.
He hasn't been able to sleep lately and I think it's due to the stress that he has at work (the sex has died down too).
I really don't want to lose him and I don't really know if he feels the same way, but I am scared that something is missing (he is 31 and I am 29).
Any advice???
Additional Info :
He's a gemini and im an Aries.. Wink we spend every night with one another and it's hard being away from him even to have personal time. We always want to be together and I feel this could be one of our issues. ???? He flew to another state to meet my parents....
Thanks for your thoughts in advance.
 
jespah
 
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Reply Wed 22 Aug, 2012 12:46 pm
@Beans,
Stop spending so much time together. I suspect a part of his stress is not having his own personal time, So let him have it. It does not have to be a big production, more like, you and your girlfriends are getting your nails done and I am sure he doesn't want to tag along for that.

You do have other friends, right? Then you've been neglecting them for him. You should remedy that. Regardless of what happens with this guy, putting all your eggs into one relationship basket is really never a good idea. I am not saying your relationship is doomed or anything of the sort. It's more that, if you spend all your free time together, you have very little to talk about.

So go out and make other memories, and have other experiences, and have a little conversational fodder and a little missing of each other. The relationship will not keel over if you are not together 24/7 and, if it does, it's not much of a relationship to begin with, yes?
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contrex
 
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Reply Wed 22 Aug, 2012 01:59 pm
You ate a pussy? Faugh!
Beans
 
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Reply Wed 22 Aug, 2012 04:44 pm
@contrex,
Thanks for that Smile You 're right. Since the beginning it has been him more than me that wants to spend every free moment together... (might sound hard to believe), this was an issue at the beginning of our relationship and since than I have decided to quit fighting it and it's turned into every free moment I have, im with him.
I feel that if I don't force time away from him, i might lose him.

Thanks you for your advice, it's nice to hear an outsiders perspective.
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