Wed 16 Feb, 2005 08:07 pm - J B,
"does your wife recognize this pattern in her behavior and is she willing to acknowledge that her negativism is affecting"
That seems to be perhaps the biggest problem.... (view)
Wed 16 Feb, 2005 08:05 pm - Roger:
"It doesn't sound like you have issues to be worked out. It's more like a personality, which isn't going to change at this late date. "
I agree. We seem to... (view)
Wed 16 Feb, 2005 07:58 pm - I really appreciate all your suggestions...
"Change is hard... (Even when a person wants to, much less when they don't). The only person you can change is yourself. But if you do... (view)
Wed 16 Feb, 2005 08:34 am - I've read that the girl can be beautiful, and the guy homely. She is happy, until
family and friends start making comments, then she feels like she hasn't gotten a good deal.
There... (view)
Wed 16 Feb, 2005 08:17 am - It's difficult to maintain long distance relationships. So, you either move closer together emotionally, or realize that he has chosen to stay where he is. It's difficult to find someone... (view)
Wed 16 Feb, 2005 08:02 am - Sounds like he is trying to make you behave like his Mom did.
"He is like my brother and father all mixed into one person. I get the poking from him like my brother would do, and the... (view)
Wed 16 Feb, 2005 07:30 am - Phoenix,
Actually, I have considered separating for years, but just couldn't figure out how. When ever things got really bad, my wife would become very sweet for a couple days, then right... (view)
Wed 16 Feb, 2005 07:23 am - I am a wedding photographer, and play the soprano sax like Kenny G. so I'm told.
In the last year at least 3 of my couples met through the internet dating service that offers a personlity... (view)
Wed 16 Feb, 2005 06:52 am - He might have though that he was bringing you a present, and never realized that you would not like it.
You must examine his motive. If he was giving you a gift, then you should at least... (view)