Sat 5 Jan, 2008 12:02 pm - I know that i had posted about ending my affair and fixing my life. However, my lover and i ended our "relationship" the day after new years. I have been devastated and i dont know what... (view)
Sat 15 Dec, 2007 07:47 am - i agree. They are under enough stress as it is, and dumping the situation on him overseas is very unfair. While the relationship may have problems, you cant fix those problems while one part of the... (view)
Thu 13 Dec, 2007 06:06 am - i guess i didnt look at it like that. I was just trying to say i would keep myself out of trouble. But i can understand how it could also be a good thing, #3 and #6.
and as for bi-polar bear, i... (view)
Tue 11 Dec, 2007 09:47 pm - i know that you feel like it might help... and might speed up the results of the situation... but everytime my m-i-l has ever tried to "fix" a situation of mine... i have been very... (view)
Tue 11 Dec, 2007 07:59 pm - I definitely am in the same boat as you are. I love my husband and i have put so much effort into our marriage... I feel like to "get out" now would be wasting all the time we have loved... (view)
Tue 11 Dec, 2007 07:46 pm - I dont know!!! thats why i am feeling so crazy... i feel guilty but at the same time i dont? I dont know why i am thinking these things or feeling these things. I feel like everything is always my... (view)
Tue 11 Dec, 2007 05:41 am - Hmm... this sounds a lot like my crazy situation. I wish i could give some advice, but i am at a loss on my own. I would at least make sure that you made yourself happy first. I wish i had had that... (view)
Tue 11 Dec, 2007 05:37 am - the thing is... i dont feel really that guilty. I mean, i do... i feel guilty that i cheated on a man i promised to be with forever... but as for the actual cheating, being with this other person... (view)
Mon 10 Dec, 2007 05:37 am - I would also like to know... if i decide that this affair is best kept to myself to prevent my husband from feeling even worse... how should i deal with the guilt? If telling him is only for the... (view)
