nimh wrote:Finn dAbuzz wrote:Imagine the ego of someone who believes that his personal leadership of the country is so important that he will put his campaign over being with and focusing his energy on his gravelly ill wife.
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Quote:Barbara Frey of Piedmont missed the Edwardses' news conference. She was undergoing chemotherapy for her own stage 4 cancer, and she is now in her third year of chemo. She thinks Edwards is absolutely making the right decision.
"It is crazy to think of dropping out now,'' she said. "It is crazy for the public to look at her as a nearly dead woman who needs tea and sympathy. What she really needs to do is go on with her life. And that ought to include the things that bring you joy. Clearly, being on the campaign trail brought her joy.'
"I think,'' said Frey, who will need chemotherapy for the rest of her life, "it is tremendously courageous of them.''
Quote:I know that fighting cancer is war because I have been in battle not once, but twice. [..] I have had countless tests, invasive examinations, chemotherapy, radiation and several surgeries; I was even hospitalized for four months. [..]
But Elizabeth Edwards is an example of a person living with, rather than dying from, cancer. [..]
Through treatment and recovery, I have been a hard-working TV producer, I have a social life, traveled domestically and abroad and have been an advocate for cancer issues. It hasn't always been easy to keep all the balls in the air, but what else could I do...sit around and be sick? If I did that, then cancer would be winning. So I live, and live the best life possible.
Thank you, Mrs. Edwards, for showing people that we, survivors, can thrive.
Quote:Mary Lievore [..] has metastatic, stage 4 cancer, just like Elizabeth Edwards. [L]isten to what she had to say.
"I don't know of any more devastating news in life than that there is no more hope of a cure,'' she said. "But at the same time, life goes on. You can't just sit in a corner and drop dead.''
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here in the other thread.
That two (or is it three) cancer sufferers approve of his position is no more or less convincing of an opinion than my own.
I can appreciate the sentiment they are expressing, but he doesn't have the disease. He is not fighting on with cancer.
I'm not saying he needs to dress in black and go into mourning for his wife, but in campaigning for the presidency, how much time will he have to spend with her during what may very well be her last months of life?
That she doesn't want him to pull out is not unexpected, but if he convinced her he was OK with it, that spending the remainder of her life with her was more important to him than being president, I, somehow, think she too would be OK with it.
It amazes me that any of these candidates have the ego and temerity to believe they are most qualified to lead the most powerful nation on the planet. They may tell themselves it is about service, but it is always about power and ego. Sometimes we the people benefit from the ego and thirst for power of elected officials, but it doesn't mean they have led the best lives available to them.