Good Call, Asher, and thank you, Treya.
I guess the family is getting back into their routines. Being all the way down here in Texas, I'm almost out of the loop. Both of my sibs are expecting their first babies in the next 6 weeks or so, I'm sure that excitement in helping the healing process.
There are times when I think about how my life has changed when Kevin became part of the picture -- he was so unlike my real father, stone-cold opposites with the exception of the computer stuff. My dad was a programmer, but he wore a tie and suit. I don't remember ever seeing a tie around Kev, it could have been there under his beard, tho.
The fact remains he was good to my Mom, in every aspect. He was good to us 'kids' too. Once I think I'm completely over his passing, I'll remember how he made me laugh and have to start over.
He told me this one at least three times:
"You know why it is that Man is meant to eat Beef? No other animal in the entire world will stare blankly at you as you hit him in the head with a large wooden mallet."