Bella Dea wrote:I think that the girls should get a record (one that goes away once they hit 18 provided each stays outta trouble), they should have to apologize to the woman they beat and the parents should have to pay for damages (any doctor bills and what not).
There is no excuse for this. But those children learned that somewhere and those responsible (parents) should also be held accountable.
I don't think this goes far enough.
So you have a record until your 18, then it goes away? The kid knows it's not going to show up once she's an "adult", so what does she care?
Maybe that record before you're 18 should entail limitatons on where this kid can go without the supervision of a parent. Like a discount department store, mall, movie theater, fast food restaurant, music stores. That'll show her her actions have consequences. As far as I'm concerned she should wear one of those ankle bracelets that'll go off if she attempts to go into any of those places, unless the parent has called ahead to let them know she's going to be taken by them.
Have the parents pay? ****, let the little darling work it off. Since she's not going to be hanging around malls anytime soon. Let her be assigned a job for as many hours a week as she would have been screwing around with her friends.
If while working she's reported for having an attitude, or isn't giving her all, further privileges will be taken away, like phone or TV use, for a period of no less than 6 months. That'll straightened her shitty attitude out.
Apologize to the woman? Yeah like that'll be a sincere apology.
Part of her work program can be doing work directly for the woman or her family.
This should go on 7 days a week with no interruption until she turns 18. On the days she's not working, her school work, which she'll have to maintain at a certain level, will keep her busy. If she doesn't make the grade, more privileges will be taken away so she'll have that extra time to study.
She'll have all of her time occupied between school and work, and won't have time for more trouble.
Now THAT's learning accountability.