Too many words, too little substance. Let's try to focus:
Lola wrote:I have very little idea about what you think and feel, I can only take your word for what you tell me about that. ... Now, I assume that ... at least most people on both sides of this question are trying to do what they feel is best, moral or right.
Excuse me??? So you assume things... right?
Quote:You have no idea, and can't have what is in the mind of abortion advocates.
If they remained silent, I wouldn't have any idea. But they are very vocal. :wink:
Quote:there are many pro-choice people, each with their own reasons.
People may have their own subjective reasons. But the objective issue is: Abortion kills an innocent human being just because he or she is inconvenient for someone. If this is wrong, the subjective circumstances of John Smith or Jane Doe are comparatively minor. I may have a "good" subjective reason for raping (excuse me: making love to) a girl that I like. But rape is rape, right?
Quote:And I assume that... "abortion advocates" have good intentions as well.
I'm sure you see that our analysis cannot stop at the point of "assuming" that everybody has "good" intentions. Hitler thought his intentions were "good". We need to see if the intentions are
objectively good, and only secondarily if people really have them. But if the action is objectively wrong, then the misguided intentions of people only matter when we try to assess their culpability. If something is objectively wrong, it should be avoided.
Quote:Most of the people I've talked to about this subject on both sides have explained what they consider to be very good reasons for their beliefs and are trying to do what they think is best.
Please don't be this naive. Everybody thinks they are great people. The problem is, sometimes they are not (Hitler).
Quote:We seem to agree that the issue is about one group trying to influence the other. Am I correct in this assumption? You did say, "that's right" in response to my statement which you quoted.
So it is not an assumption anymore. I said it. We agree.
Quote:But growing up unwanted or in a severely deprived environment does affect a person's ability to make reasonable and rational judgements ...
There are many conditions and evironments that "affect" our ability to make reasonable judgments. Certain types of families, certain types of influences, certain types of wealth and of expectations... Do you really think we can
predict outcomes? And even if we could, does it give us the right to kill future "failures"? (see
Minority Report)
Quote:I'm simply saying that violence and deprivation breed violence and deprivation.
Yeah. And we should get rid of violent, deprived, degenerate, types... right? You know how this sounds like???
Quote:It seems perfectly reasonable to me that we're talking about a question of when killing is helpful or necessary and when it's not.
What is the difference between your views and Nazism?
Quote:Not about whether killing is sometimes justified or necessary. It's a matter of when and why, not whether.
You need a more systematic approach to this. Are you familiar with the distinction "good" and "evil"? What about the distinction between bigger and lesser evils? Is abortion a lesser evil? Lesser than what? If you don't know the soul (or thoughts or feelings) of a person, can you claim to know their future? Is a poor baby bound to be a criminal? Is that your "assumption"?
Quote:You see it as necessary under some circumstances and I see it as necessary under others, unfortunately we don't agree on which is which.
You are now guessing my position. I just explained the different rationales for the death penalty and abortion. I didn't take a personal position on the death penalty.
Now, you seem to believe that the choice between circumstances is purely arbitrary. Wrong. Someone could come up and claim that, under the circumstances, we should kill you. Why would anybody oppose him?
Quote:And we both have our reasons. And we're not going to convince each other, so let's stop trying. OK?
And you think this is REASONABLE?
Basically what you're saying is: Argument and reason are useless. I've made my choice. It is legitimate because it is MINE (not because it is truth, 'cause I don't care about it). Don't question it. Don't assess its truth value. Let's just stop talking, let's stop arguing, let's just shut up. Your attitude leads to the logic of power... The more powerful are able to get away with what they want just because...
Quote:Do I complain about being born? No, I do not. My life is very cushy and I'm having a marvelous time.
And if you were not having a good time?
Quote:Even though I'm told by my parents that they intended to abort me, but they somehow didn't get around to it....
Are you happy about it?
Quote:if they had, I wouldn't know it so I wouldn't care.
How do you know this?
Quote:What do you have a prejudice against us hedonists?
Yes, I'm very prejudiced, biased, and bigoted. :wink:
It would be interesting if you had noticed my key points and discussed them. Here they are again, for you to ponder:
Quote:- Abortion ends the life of a totally INNOCENT and DEFENSELESS human being that is absolutely SUBJECT to the whims of ONE person alone.
- The death penalty has been traditionally seen as a lesser EVIL applied to the GUILTY of specially GRAVE CRIMES after a careful JUDICIAL PROCESS involving a legal DEFENSE, appeal instances, pardon possibilities, and DUE PROCESS under the LAW.
and...
Quote:A few questions for you to think about: Since the pill and condoms became widely available even in high schools,
1. Did the number of unwanted pregnancies go down or up?
2. Did the number of "liberated" single mothers go down or up?
3. Did the number of abortions go down or up?
WHAT IS THE REAL IMPACT OF FREE DISTRIBUTION OF CONTRACEPTIVES? WHY?
and....
Quote:Unless you grew in some isolated village somewhere in Africa or Asia, you're values have an overwhelming chance of coming from the Judeo-Christian, Greco-Roman heritage (whether you're aware of it or not).
A little bit of historical and cultural awareness and self-awareness would help you understand some very fundamental things...