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au1929
 
Reply Fri 1 Dec, 2006 10:42 am
And it's winter before we know it....
REFLECTIONS
You know, time has a way of moving quickly and catching you unaware of thepassing years.

It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on my new life with my mate. And yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all...
And I have glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams... But, here it is..the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise...
How did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my babies go? And where did my youth go?

I remember well... seeing older people through the years and thinking that those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like...
But, here it is...wife retired and she's really getting gray...she moves slower and I see an older woman now. She's in better shape than me... but, I see the great change... Not the one I married who was young and vibrant... but, like me, her age is beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see and never thought we'd be.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore..it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will...I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so, now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do things.

But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last...This I know, that when it's over..its over....Yes , I have regrets There are things I wish I hadn't done ,,,,,things I should have done. But indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have done Its all in a lifetime.. .

So, if you're not in your winter yet...let me remind you, that it will be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to accomplish in your life please do it quickly!

Life goes by quickly So, do what you can today, because you can never be sure whether this is your winter or not!

You have no promise that you will see all the seasons of your life..so, live for good today and say all the things that you want your loved ones to remember...

"Life is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to those who came after. Make it a fantastic one."

LIVE IT WELL!!
~author unknown~
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tessxyz
 
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Reply Mon 26 Feb, 2007 09:56 pm
thank you for yor post and food for thought.

It is beautiful in the way u cherish the old age and advice how to get prepared for it.

It is so sad, how u resent it.

However ,try to find the ways how to enjoy the autumn of your life. It has so many things you can enjoy when we little bit younger can't. Every age has positives and negatives. The art of enjoying the life comes down to recognizing them and living your live with grasping all which is available to you.
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roger
 
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Reply Mon 26 Feb, 2007 10:00 pm
Tessxyz, I'm just not seeing the resentment.

Au, it's great.
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tessxyz
 
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Reply Mon 26 Feb, 2007 10:03 pm
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Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore..it's mandatory! Cause if I don't on my own free will...I just fall asleep where I sit!

But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure how long it will last...This I know, that when it's over..its over....Yes , I have regrets There are things I wish I hadn't done ,,,,,things I should have done


is this not one?


But thinking a bit longer you might be right.
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