Help needed on Marlboro contest question II

Uncle Larry said:
We joke around alot on this thread but we really only know the people here by what they write, and I think that we all know you by your thoughts and not by the picture that shows up next to your post.

That's the thing I like about the forum. There's no judging people by their looks. It's what you write and how you sound that matters.

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Fine so bash me what else is new. They know more because we talk on the phone and we email and pm. I never called him an idiot. In fact he has a lot more intelligence than I do. I can even admit that.

I just don't understand you caribou. You do not live my life or walk in my shoes. Maybe for once you should not judge me. You seem to always show up and judge me. You do not know what I have tried. They do.

Did it ever occur to you that I do that because I feel so bad (not poor me) but really bad in my heart. Sometimes it is easier to say things the way I do because it helps me deal with it.

Just leave me alone. I do not need any more misery in my life right now.
Every day has been hard for me. I do what I do to cope.

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caribou wrote:

Sigh, I think everyone's gone...
I read today's posts to catch up...

I gotta say, I've never understood tth bashing her husband so mercilessly. It makes me uncomfortable. How can you be married to someone so long and be as unhappy as you seem here when you talk about him.

I don't get it.

And then today, you all jumped on the bash-tth's-husband bandwagon.

I really don't get it.

I've found no one can really know what goes on between two people in a relationship. I don't know tth's relationship, except that on here, she likes to do the poor-me,-I'm-with-an-idiot routine.
I believe that if you are unhappy, do something about it. I have no patience listening to someone bash their "loved" one publicly, yet not seem to want do anything to change it.

I don't see the humor in helping tth bash her husband.
Sorry, if I offend anyone, I just needed to get that off my chest...
Just my ever so humble opinion.

[size=7]Is there a target on my chest now?[/size]

Boo ... please show me where I jumped on this wagon? Confused

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Boo,

We freely express our thoughts here and you're welcome to also. But you may have noticed that we tend to avoid personal attacks like the one just posted. Just about everything else is fair game. If you don't like what TTH posted about her spouse and the others enjoined, skip over it and resume on the next topic. The personal attacks destroy the thread that you expressed liking. Yes there have been other attacks here and I believe you were a recipient too... reflect on that and your reaction to it. Can't we all just get along?

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Caribou, All jumped in? I did all that? Hmmmmm. Rolling Eyes

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coondog wrote:

Caribou, All jumped in? I did all that? Hmmmmm.

I thought you showed great restraint. :wink:

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Flumoxed wrote:

coondog wrote:
Caribou, All jumped in? I did all that? Hmmmmm.

I thought you showed great restraint. :wink:

If she would notice, most of my comments here are just wise cracks... I dont get involved unless it's aimed at me, then the fun starts...

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No one aims at you amigo. You have to make yourself a target first. Laughing

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Thank you guys. I feel I always have to defend myself and that I am all alone. I am actually crying again. So I am leaving. I did not need this today. Sometimes everyday is hard for me. I am not perfect and I do have feelings.

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Flumoxed wrote:

No one aims at you amigo. You have to make yourself a target first.

She probably did make a good point, but when she said ALL JUMPED IN we have a problem.....

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coondog wrote:

Flumoxed wrote:
No one aims at you amigo. You have to make yourself a target first.
She probably did make a good point, but when she said ALL JUMPED IN we have a problem.....

I get a little torqued when they become personal ... no matter who the recipient is. Hell Coon I'd come to you rescue too ... like you'd ever need my help. Although I did think a rescue was in order when you lost the bet to Ben. Laughing

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Gotta run ... check back later for more damage control!

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Flumoxed wrote:

coondog wrote:
Flumoxed wrote:
No one aims at you amigo. You have to make yourself a target first.
She probably did make a good point, but when she said ALL JUMPED IN we have a problem.....

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coondog wrote:

Flumoxed wrote:
No one aims at you amigo. You have to make yourself a target first.
She probably did make a good point, but when she said ALL JUMPED IN we have a problem.....

Yeah coon just rub the salt in the wound. I hope it makes you feel better.
You are another that shows you do not like me. So just leave me alone.
I don't appreciate this one bit. I am so glad you have your safe 9-5 job and go home and do whatever. I don't have a normal life. So, just leave me alone.

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Caribou said everybody jumped in on the bashing, all i said was not all jumped in i didnt. You dont have to worry about me leaving you alone, i do.....

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Yeah why is that? Is it because I told you something personal?
or is it because I did not give you the answer to the question?

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tryingtohelp wrote:

Yeah why is that? Is it because I told you something personal?
or is it because I did not give you the answer to the question?

I dont have time for all your sorrow, drama, bashing, and all the other BS that seems to follow you.. Just count me out of having conversations with you, i have been done a long time ago.. There is plenty of other's here to talk to for the time being... If i were them, i would go watch a soap opera, its the same thing..

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It only started after I did not give you that one answer. Until then you were fine. You were so confident that you knew. I would have given it to you
until I felt you were not telling the truth.

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tryingtohelp wrote:

Fine so bash me what else is new. They know more because we talk on the phone and we email and pm. I never called him an idiot. In fact he has a lot more intelligence than I do. I can even admit that.

Okay, yes, maybe they know more than I do. All I hear here is you saying negative things about your husband. I don't understand talking like that about someone you are married to. I don't get it.

tryingtohelp wrote:

I just don't understand you caribou. You do not live my life or walk in my shoes. Maybe for once you should not judge me. You seem to always show up and judge me. You do not know what I have tried. They do..

I do not know you, except for the way that you talk on here and the way you say things. I have never judged you. I'm saying that I do not understand continuely bitching about your spouse and I don't understand when people jump in to help. I don't think it's funny. I think something's wrong. I don't understand being unhappy about something and not rying to fix it. As for judging, you have attacked and judged me twice, without good cause. I'm simply asking questions. And stating my opinions, which, yeah maybe on this thread, aren't welcome.

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Flumoxed wrote:

caribou wrote:
Sigh, I think everyone's gone...
I read today's posts to catch up...

I gotta say, I've never understood tth bashing her husband so mercilessly. It makes me uncomfortable. How can you be married to someone so long and be as unhappy as you seem here when you talk about him.

I don't get it.

And then today, you all jumped on the bash-tth's-husband bandwagon.

I really don't get it.

I've found no one can really know what goes on between two people in a relationship. I don't know tth's relationship, except that on here, she likes to do the poor-me,-I'm-with-an-idiot routine.
I believe that if you are unhappy, do something about it. I have no patience listening to someone bash their "loved" one publicly, yet not seem to want do anything to change it.

I don't see the humor in helping tth bash her husband.
Sorry, if I offend anyone, I just needed to get that off my chest...
Just my ever so humble opinion.

[size=7]Is there a target on my chest now?[/size]

Boo ... please show me where I jumped on this wagon?

Ox, I have much respect for you... No you did not and no, neither did Coon. When I said everybody, I only meant the people that joined in. Sorry, I shouldn't have been so broad. You did try to quietly question tth about the good in her relationship. It was a good and important point.

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