Help needed on Marlboro contest question II

Flumoxed wrote:

Boo,

We freely express our thoughts here and you're welcome to also. But you may have noticed that we tend to avoid personal attacks like the one just posted. Just about everything else is fair game. If you don't like what TTH posted about her spouse and the others enjoined, skip over it and resume on the next topic. The personal attacks destroy the thread that you expressed liking. Yes there have been other attacks here and I believe you were a recipient too... reflect on that and your reaction to it. Can't we all just get along?

The way she talks about the hubby has bothered me for some time and on other threads. I'm just expressing my opinion and asking why? I think what I wrote is less of a personal attack on her than hers has been on me. And no, it's not done in retaliation. I just don't get it. Yeah, I can see the benefits to being polite (I guess that might be the word) and ignoring it, but today it really bothered me and I said something. Sorry to disrupt the harmony...

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Caribou not everything you say is true. That is just not so. If you do not like something I do then ask me. Also when you first came on this thread I posted something and said I am new. Your response was unkind. You looked at the number in that box and said something to the effect that I was not new. You judged me from the beginning. You do not know who I am referring to when I have said "you know who". You assumed it is my spouse.

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Ok boo...Let me clear this up...so there is no misunderstanding....I bashed TTH's husband...I'm the one who made the comments about him...all she commented on was the freaking wreath on her door...I'm the one who said tattoo idiot on his forehead...I'm also the one who said I would loan her the bat to take to his damn head...So she did not bash her husband..I DID!!!!...unless you have been married to ingrate for as long as she or I have...you have no ideal what the story is or what you are talking about...if there is a conversation that is posted and you don't like it...wait til one comes along you do like...instead of posting personal attacks on people...and if you going to post personal attacks make sure you got the right person to attack...cause to be honest with you I'll bash whoever the f#%k I want to bash!...so your personal attack should be posted to BENOUTWITTED that would be me!...and by the way no one jumped on the band wagon...it was all me...so deal with it or shut up...yes you made yourself a target...and no one here should have to cry or defend themselves here.

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caribou I do not like to do this at all but what you said about me in the other thread is just not right. So, I have kept this. Not once have you acknowledged this. This was the 2nd btw. You have never apologized to me. I sent that to you in a pm. You totally ignored and continued. I finally am sick of how you treat me. Then have the nerve to go to another thread and post like it is all my doing. That is uncalled for.

Caribou,
I still think I owe you an apology. I am truly sorry for the way I came across to you with that picture. I really did not mean for you to feel like I was attacking you. That was not my intent. I realize it came across that way though. I am sorry for that. I still have a hard time when it comes to writing the way I want something to turn out as opposed to saying it in person. Others have had to point that out to me so I am still working on it. I must say you were more patient than I would have been if the tables were turned and I felt the way you said you did. I rather someone point it out to me though when I do something like that because like I said it was not my intent in your case. So, I do hope you accept my apology and maybe we can start out new.

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Ben thank you. You do not know how much I appreciate it.

I come back because of people like ben. She has a huge heart. You have no idea the friend she has been here to me.

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No problem...I didn't do it for your benifit...I just don't like personal attacks on people who are innocent...if your going to attack someone...make sure you attack the right person is all I'm saying and get your facts straight if your going to do it.

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Boo if you feel the need to have a conversation with me some time down the road...ya know where to find me...I'm out for now...good night to all here...see ya in the morning.

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Let's go through what I said.

caribou wrote:

Sigh, I think everyone's gone...
I read today's posts to catch up...

I gotta say, I've never understood tth bashing her husband so mercilessly. It makes me uncomfortable. How can you be married to someone so long and be as unhappy as you seem here when you talk about him.

I don't get it.

Okay, tth, I have never heard you say a nice thing about the person you married to. No, I don't get it. Why are you married to someone that doesn't make you happy?
I know who you are talking about when you say you-know-who. You've said it all often enough before.

caribou wrote:

And then today, you all jumped on the bash-tth's-husband bandwagon.

I really don't get it.

Okay, here I probably said the wrong thing. I should have just left it out. But seeing Witty and Toots and Uncle saying bad things about someone that I was guessing that they only know through tth's writings, bothers me. If someone is unhappy in their marriage and complains about it. I just don't find it funny. I think it's sad. Do you hear me, tth? I feel sad for you.

caribou wrote:

I've found no one can really know what goes on between two people in a relationship. I don't know tth's relationship, except that on here, she likes to do the poor-me,-I'm-with-an-idiot routine.
I believe that if you are unhappy, do something about it. I have no patience listening to someone bash their "loved" one publicly, yet not seem to want do anything to change it.

I don't see the humor in helping tth bash her husband.
Sorry, if I offend anyone, I just needed to get that off my chest...
Just my ever so humble opinion..

Okay, should have made the poor-me,-I'm with-an-idiot comment out. But I see nothing wrong with the rest of it.
No one can know what goes on in a relationship, except sometimes the people in it.
I don't believe in complaining about things that you have the power to change, and even with the things you can't change, why go on about them?

It's my opinion. I'm sorry if my opinions and observations upset you or anyone else on this thread.

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benoutwitted wrote:

Ok boo...Let me clear this up...so there is no misunderstanding....I bashed TTH's husband...I'm the one who made the comments about him...all she commented on was the freaking wreath on her door...I'm the one who said tattoo idiot on his forehead...I'm also the one who said I would loan her the bat to take to his damn head...So she did not bash her husband..I DID!!!!...unless you have been married to ingrate for as long as she or I have...you have no ideal what the story is or what you are talking about...if there is a conversation that is posted and you don't like it...wait til one comes along you do like...instead of posting personal attacks on people...and if you going to post personal attacks make sure you got the right person to attack...cause to be honest with you I'll bash whoever the f#%k I want to bash!...so your personal attack should be posted to BENOUTWITTED that would be me!...and by the way no one jumped on the band wagon...it was all me...so deal with it or shut up...yes you made yourself a target...and no one here should have to cry or defend themselves here.

Ben, I adore you. I don't mean to upset anyone. I haven't read yet what else you wrote... let me go back and read...

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tth, I'm sorry.
I should not have tried to point anything out. I should have kept my opinions to myself. I did not mean to make you upset or make you cry.

I'm done deffending what I posted.

I cannot PM. I've told you that before.
No, I did not mention your apology.
I would rather not have any PMs from you.
Anything you need to say to me can be said on a forum.

What I tried to say isn't worth all this. Drama is not my middle name. No, I am not saying that it's anyone's middle name.

Forget it. I'm sorry.

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Oh, and I adore Toots and Uncle and Coon and Oxie, too.

I really didn't mean anything as an attack.
Sorry it was taken that way.

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Hi all!

Well, here I am through with trainig and I passed!! Laughing

We started out with 65 in our class, and only 44 graduated.

Any-hoo, glad I'm back! Very Happy

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Hi, Cowgirl, I have missed you.

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And Congratulations!

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I'm going to bed now. Bye, cowgirl!

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Goodnight cowgirly and ben.

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To the rest of you I would have left by now. There is no reason for me to stay just to be treated unkindly for no reason. You fluoz, ben, toot toot,
skuncle, cowgirly and horse you have become my friends. I have your information but I gave my word to someone to stay and I am keeping my word. I will not go back on my word.

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Bookmarking... with a single thought. Let's try to be extra nice today!

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OB

you beat me too it....

[size=7]punk[/size]..... Very Happy

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caribou wrote:

Oh, and I adore Toots and Uncle and Coon and Oxie, too.

I really didn't mean anything as an attack.
Sorry it was taken that way.

awww shucks!!!! Embarrassed

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