echi wrote:real life wrote:echi wrote:real life wrote:Eorl wrote:The relevance is obvious.
Does the effectiveness of the deterrent of punishing children more severely, make it "right" to do so?
I think most parents recognize that a more severe punishment is befitting a greater misdeed and is a greater deterrent.
If a child misbehaves , the parent may restrict his computer usage for a day. If the child repeats the behavior or commits a greater misdeed , the computer may be off limits for a week, etc
Is this not the case?
If the child knows that no matter what he does, the greatest penalty will be restriction of the computer usage for 10 minutes, do you think that is as much a deterrent as the greater penalty? Common sense should give you the correct answer.
If you had an adult child who was convicted of capital murder would you seek and/or support his execution?
I'm sure that I would act as most parents in a similar situation would.
That's WHY it would not be left in my hands, because I'm too close to the situation and as a society we want objective persons to dispassionately decide what is proper.
That's why relatives of the victim and relatives of the accused would NOT be allowed on the jury to decide guilt or innocence, or to decide punishment if convicted.
You would support the death penalty for other people's kids but not your own.
I would act in a similar manner if he had committed a crime that was NOT a capital crime and the punishment was 'only' jail.
I would not want him to go to jail, and would do everything I could to be sure he had opportunity to prove his innocence, make sure due process was properly followed, etc.
But it wouldn't be left up to me. Society makes the call on it, not the relatives of the victim and not the relatives of the accused.
So would you say 'RL supports jail time for other's kids but not his own' ?
Ok , nobody wants jail OR execution for their kids. What's news about that?